Amber D - Flow State, Hard House, and Healing

In this powerful and inspiring episode of When I Grow Up, Paul reconnects with long-time friend and legendary DJ Amber D, whose journey through life, music, and mental health is nothing short of remarkable.Amber shares her deeply personal story of losing her mother at just 17, navigating homelessness, and finding solace and purpose through the world of hard house music. She recalls the first time she touched a set of decks and experienced “flow state”, a moment that would change the trajectory of her life forever. From teaching herself to mix vinyl obsessively to landing residencies and gracing the cover of Mixmag, Amber’s rise through the dance music scene is as inspiring as it is unconventional.But Amber’s story goes far beyond music. She opens up about becoming a mental health first aider, working with charities like Last Night a DJ Saved My Life, and raising thousands for life-changing projects, including building a well in Uganda and teaching DJ skills to vulnerable youth in Sierra Leone. Closer to home, she mentors young women in Leeds, helping them channel their energy into creativity.Amber and Paul also discuss the challenges of being in the public eye during personal breakups, the stigma around health issues, and the unexpected success of her “toilet selfies” — all while keeping humour front and centre. Listeners get a glimpse into her current work, from running an online DJ school to launching a new podcast with her partner, Guy.It’s an episode about resilience, reinvention, and using your passion to make a difference. Whether you’re a music lover, a creative, or someone looking for a shot of motivation, Amber’s story will leave you inspired.Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts!#AmberD #WhenIGrowUpPodcast #HardHouse #DJLife #FlowState #MentalHealthAwareness #WomenInMusic #CharityWork #InspiringStories #MusicCommunity