An interpretation of resilience

Good morning, good day. Good evening, wherever you are in the world you are. This week, I'm coming to you from the Phoenix Country Club, where Liam is going to be playing the semi finals this afternoon. And I'm going to talk to you a little bit about resilience, which, of course, is a buzzword, and many people talk about being resilient. And my interpretation of what resilient is, may may help you. So basically, this week has been going very well. And obviously, through Liam's career, we've been together for pretty much seven, eight years, and it's been a very, very long road. So that is something you know, sticking around and stickability and just keep improving on what you do is one side of resilience. But the the other side of resilience, I'd like to talk to you about is when things go wrong in other parts of your life. So, for instance, you know, this week, managed to come out of a parking space and, you know, run into another car wasn't bad, nobody hurt. But it's definitely something that that is an issue that needs to be dealt with, there's a problem with insurance. And it's gonna be big, big hassle. Now think that resilience is being able also to put things in a box, and not let them affect the rest of your life and the rest of your day and all the things that you've got to do. So whilst I've got this thing hanging over my head, I put it in a box and just say, you know, it's something that, you know, will have to be dealt with, and it will be dealt with. And while I'm focusing on that, when I'm dealing with it, the rest of the time, I just put it in the back of my mind and, and don't really worry about it. And I think you know, part of resilience, which allows people to continue and have a good attitude to everything that they do is being able to put tough stuff in boxes and, and deal with them as and when necessary, and not have them, you know, impacting every other area of their life. So, I think, you know, by interpretation of resilience is is is simply that is keep things separate as much as possible. Not saying everything can be in that there's never any seepage, but definitely, I find that helps me. Anyway. Thanks very much for listening, and I'll speak to you again next week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices