An Unexpected Banter and an Honest Conversation on Love , with Andre AJ Carter

Before I give you the full introduction to this guest, I have to share something a little fun and unexpected. For the first time on this podcast, I found myself in a lively back-and-forth banter with my guest during a live recording — and I loved every minute of it. Andre AJ Carter and I went toe-to-toe for several minutes, exchanging perspectives, making strong points, and respectfully challenging each other. It was energetic, thoughtful, and honestly refreshing. I’ve never done this with any guest before, so if you’re a fiction or nonfiction writer, an avid reader, or someone who simply enjoys meaningful conversation, you’ll want to tune in and listen. And when you do, let us know whose side you found yourself agreeing with. After that spirited exchange, we shifted back to the heart of why Andre joined me on the show — his work, his books, and his passion for helping people build healthier relationships. Andre shared how his writing has helped married couples, people in relationships, and even singles navigate love, conflict, purpose, and growth. What stood out was how deeply his work is rooted in practical wisdom and biblical principles, offering real solutions that people can actually apply to their lives. We talked about relationships, marriage, personal responsibility, and how books can become powerful tools for healing, understanding, and lasting connection. Whether you’re married, dating, single, or simply interested in relationships that honor God, this episode offers insight, encouragement, and plenty to reflect on. About the guest: Rev. Andre AJ Carter is an Interior Lifestyle Designer, certified Master Life Coach, and Goal Success Coach, widely known as “The Love Mechanic.” He grew up in Jamaica, Queens, New York, and endured an extremely difficult childhood marked by abuse, gang violence, and loss. Despite overwhelming odds, Andre’s story is one of resilience and transformation. He is a published author, a three-time U.S. Library of Congress award winner for poetry, and has been recognized in Who’s Who in Poetry worldwide. At just 19, he became a songwriter and ghostwriter with 29 copywritten songs to his name. Andre is also a motivational speaker with a deep passion for helping underprivileged youth, couples, and individuals reframe their thinking, refocus their priorities, and rebuild their lives with purpose. His work centers on relationship conflict resolution, breaking unhealthy habits, creating success through intentional living, and helping love last — grounded in faith and practical application. This episode is honest, thought-provoking, and full of substance. Whether you come for the banter or stay for the wisdom, you’ll leave encouraged and challenged in the best way. *** A Personal Note to Our Listeners Thank you for being here—your time, attention, and heart make this community what it is. We are committed to keeping this platform accessible while maintaining a high standard of production and value. That comes with both time and financial investment. If this podcast has ever added value to you, we invite you to support what we are building. Your contribution, no matter the size, helps us continue to create meaningful and impactful content. If you would like to give, please use the link below to access all payment options:https://docs.google.com/forms/... Thank you for listening, for supporting, and for being part of this community.