An unhealed performative indigenous soul becomes a danger to themselves & others

Reflections on Indigenous Women’s Experiences: Lateral Violence, Systemic Racism, and HealingMarina Crane’s Journey from Calgary: Conversations on Truth, Trauma, and StrengthIntroductionGood afternoon, it’s Marina Crane again from Suchana First Nations on the outskirts of Calgary, Alberta, Canada. With the city of a million people as backdrop, I want to share thoughts that add to the ongoing dynamics of how Indigenous women are perceived—and the vital need to educate younger Indigenous women.Understanding Lateral Violence and PerceptionsThroughout history, Indigenous women have been born and raised within systems shaped by systemic racism. Lateral violence—harm inflicted within our own communities—often emerges from these systems, compounding trauma and shaping perceptions. These notes reflect on past discussions, hoping listeners and readers gain insight.The Impact of Change and Emotional TurmoilThere is a palpable sense of emotion and negativity in the air, especially as communities grapple with change. Change is difficult for many, and conversations with loved ones reveal how this struggle can affect relationships. People often resist change, sometimes projecting their feelings onto others rather than facing their own challenges.Experiences of Lateral Violence and Social MediaLateral violence can take shape on platforms like Facebook, where hurtful accusations—such as being labelled a pedophile—are spread without empathy or concern for the person affected. Rather than reporting such posts, individuals sometimes share them, fuelling gossip and causing pain. These actions reflect deeper issues within our social circles, often rooted in a lack of accountability and understanding of the impact on others.Maintaining Boundaries and PrivacyAs an Indigenous woman, keeping one’s life private and setting boundaries is a conscious effort. Gossip and denial can persist for decades, especially when those we work alongside in the community are the ones spreading harmful narratives. The ethical space—where safety and truth are valued—can be threatened by such actions, undermining the work of social change.Systemic Racism and Generational TraumaSystemic racism is woven deeply into the fabric of Canadian society. Historical and ongoing discrimination shapes how Indigenous women are perceived and treated. Stories of young women facing high-risk behaviours, suicide, pregnancy, and intergenerational trauma highlight the urgent need for support systems and healing ceremonies. Yet, disclosure of abuse or harm is often met with silence or denial, further perpetuating cycles of harm.Healing, Identity, and SexualityHealing is a lifelong journey. Conversations about healthy human sexuality, boundaries, and abstinence challenge harmful stereotypes and encourage openness. Elders can offer valuable guidance, stressing the importance of addressing these issues early in life. Healing requires surfacing buried emotions and processing past behaviour, rather than projecting pain onto others.Family relationships are complex, especially when affected by lateral violence, cult dynamics, or conflicting narratives. Children and youth often return to their families seeking connection and support, only to find parents struggling with addiction, trauma, or systemic barriers. The importance of being healthy, present, and supportive for the next generation resonates strongly throughout these reflections.Indigenous women face unique challenges, often navigating racism from both outside and within their communities. Misconceptions and stereotypes persist, including harmful assumptions about sexuality, relationships, and cultural identity. Experiences with systemic racism in healthcare, education, and social services underscore the need for advocacy, truth-telling, and resilience.