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EPISODE · Feb 4, 2026 · 24 MIN

Anger - From a Man's Perspective Part 4

from Beyond Affairs · host Anne & Brian Bercht

In this fourth installment of Anger From a Man’s Perspective, Brian Bercht addresses a powerful and common question from a wife navigating betrayal recovery: “If he’s trying to clean up his act, why does he still walk around with an angry, sour attitude, and why does it make me feel unsafe?” This episode unpacks what’s really happening beneath a man’s anger after an affair, especially when he appears to be doing many of the “right” things on the surface but still shows up with frustration, defensiveness, or a persistent edge. Brian explains why a man’s anger is often not about his wife, but about perceived injustice, fear, loss of control, and unresolved internal struggles. He outlines how anger can mask deeper emotions like fear, shame, insecurity, and feelings of being overlooked, misunderstood, or insignificant; many of which predate the marriage itself. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367

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In this fourth installment of Anger From a Man’s Perspective, Brian Bercht addresses a powerful and common question from a wife navigating betrayal recovery: “If he’s trying to clean up his act, why does he still walk around with an angry, sour attitude, and why does it make me feel unsafe?” This episode unpacks what’s really happening beneath a man’s anger after an affair, especially when he appears to be doing many of the “right” things on the surface but still shows up with frustration, de...

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