Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1)

Chapter Thirteen of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. 00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Thirteen: Follow-Up, part 1) 00:25 Acceptance vs. forgiveness 05:30 Incest-like fantasies & shame 20:06 Acceptance with a clause 25:24 Forgiveness in Christianity 37:09 CBT skills in communication 42:23 Parental apologies & Dr. Kirk's apology 52:35 Apologies & internalized schemas 57:30 Apology law review 58:22 A narcissistic veil & difficulty apologizing 1:07:48 Upload errors From our sponsor, Policygenius: Need an insurance policy? Try Policygenius at https://www.policygenius.com From our sponsor, BetterHelp: Need a therapist? Try BetterHelp! https://www.betterhelp.com/kirk Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Discount code “KIRK" will be automatically applied. Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/ Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.honda The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ® Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being. Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com