Approach vs Attraction: 6 reasons Why Approach Can Be An Ineffective Dating Strategy

A lot of what I teach men when it comes to dating, and also maintaining healthy relationships in the long term, comes down to understanding natural attraction. In Red Pill, we often tell men to be attractive and less unattractive. There is a reason for this. Largely, we are talking about using a woman's hypergamous nature to our advantage. The thing is, what most men are doing when initially trying to attract women is they are approaching women, and trying to qualify themselves to women. This puts women in a higher position to them, and is really ineffective. Instead, it's better and a heck of a lot easier to learn how to attract women naturally. Not only that, but learn how to get women to come to you and qualify themselves to you. In this episode we will discuss the problems with approach and why understanding attraction is a better solution. This episode will be based on a section of the "Break Your Addiction To Superficial Beauty" chapter in "Dating Essentials for Men" by Dr. Robert Glover // BECOME A SPOTIFY SUBSCRIBER // Become a subscriber on Spotify to help support the podcast and get access to Rule Zero and Dragonship bonus episodes when I host those panel shows - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe // BOOK // Get my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNH88C47 Autographed copies: https://comeonmanpod.gumroad.com/l/books // COURSES // No Cold Approach in The Cow Pasture (Online Dating Course): http://dates.comeonmanpod.com Practical Law of Attraction course: http://loa.comeonmanpod.com // COACHING AND OTHER RESOURCES // Beer Club: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com Coaching: http://coaching.comeonmanpod.com FREE PDF with 20 Dating App Openers! Join my email list: http://list.comeonmanpod.com MERCH: http://merch.comeonmanpod.com Recommended Reading: https://is.gd/COMPBooks // SOCIAL MEDIA // Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@bestmenspod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast // OTHER MEDIA // Watch the full episode - http://youtube.com/comeonmanpodcast