April 13: Spiritual Principle a Day, read by Kathie Purple

Spiritual Principle a Day for April 13, read by Kathie PurpleDonations via PayPal and questions may be directed to:[email protected] 13Finding the Hope We Need to Heal"We don’t have to deny reality to have hope or gratitude. We feel what we feel, and we do the footwork anyway."—Living Clean, Chapter 7, “Living Our Principles”––––=––––A lot of us have had a hopeless moment when we are going through something difficult, and a fellow recovering addict shares their opinion that “feelings aren’t facts”—and we want to chop their head off. Perhaps more helpful—and hopeful—is this fact: Feelings are real and one thing we learn in NA is that we can feel them and survive them. We do so not merely by grasping onto hope that they’ll change soon, but by taking actions in spite of them. As one addict rhymed, we “feel, deal, and heal.”We deal by engaging the familiar NA footwork: going to meetings, sharing the feelings, and listening for solutions; doing stepwork around an issue, such as our resistance to change; praying and meditating; and focusing on others, not just our own strife. And of course, there’s the footwork that’s specific to our particular situation. Loss of employment, for instance, requires footwork to replace it. A mental health issue might warrant an appointment with a professional. We retake a course we failed or initiate lifestyle changes to improve our health. We end a marriage. We certainly aren’t guaranteed a pain-free life in recovery, and sometimes the footwork is painful, too. Hope is a bridge to relief.A fresh perspective, especially when infused with gratitude and hope, helps us heal. When we lose that job, many of us will go down the road of fear and self-pity. Taking a moment to shift our perspective to one of gratitude (I have come so far) and hope (There are other opportunities out there for me)—and faith, too (I’ll be okay no matter what)—won’t deny us our very real feelings. Instead, perspective keeps reasonable feelings of sadness and fear from morphing into abject despair or outsized anxiety. We don’t wait until the fear has gone, or the stress or anger or sorrow, before we get back on the path. The feelings might still linger, but we’re moving, letting change happen, even taking risks. We’re healing.Spiritual Princinple: I may not like where I am right now, but I can still be grateful. I can deal with my feelings by working a program and striving to change my perspective.––––=––––Spiritual Principle:Through NA, and in my relationships with fellow addicts, I find the hope I need to heal.––––=––––© NA World ServicesThis podcast is not affiliated with Narcotics Anonymous, and is an independent production of the Works of Wisdom