Are all Rich Single Men Spoilt, Arrogant & Entitled?

Women are being shamed, should they prefer a ready-made man, while single "rich" men are automatically defined as morally bankrupt, "characterless" and chronic casanovas who lord their money over others. How do we balance this and put matters in proper perspective? As a single woman, if you prefer a struggling man to secure yourself a say in his life when he later becomes rich, then please listen.