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EPISODE · Aug 31, 2026 · 47 MIN

Are Dating Standards Ruining Dating? 50/50, Black Dating, Dating Apps & Letting Men Lead

from I Love You, But BFFR · host India Jade

Are dating apps and social media helping us find love, or teaching us a checklist for what a “real man,” “real woman” and healthy relationship are supposed to look like? India sits down with one of her homegirls to talk modern dating, Black love, the 50/50 relationship debate, provider expectations, dating apps, colorism, interracial dating, feminine energy and what it actually means to let a man lead. They unpack why endless options may be making dating harder, how our experiences shape who we choose and why somebody not choosing you doesn’t make you any less worthy. Topics: modern dating • Black dating • 50/50 relationships • dating apps • provider men • feminine energy • letting men lead • colorism • interracial dating • relationship standards • Let Them Theory Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram & TikTok for more Watch on YouTube every Friday

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