So what if you guys welcome back to daydream or daydream they drip when they drip they create is a process You all welcome back to the channel. Thanks for watching again and back again Y'all you know just keep hustling moving and you know we gonna make it through this but yeah, so you know the title You know I want to talk about you know relationships and you know, I'm not gonna be when I get me and what's what's the other one? multiple multiple ones yeah, I'm probably gonna be here festival festival um Yeah, just talking about open relationships because I know lately people been talking about willing Jada and You know in the video I'm going to like actually like watch Or I'm gonna probably watch it and then put my reaction at the end of this video or something like that But you know this whole jay-pig of Smith first of all, you know shout out to willing Jada, you know, I believe I believe I'm I'm gonna correct myself later from wrong, but you know from what I've heard they are you know Open relationship and as far as that you know kudos to them because Not not many people not many black people be able to be for that You know and a lot I know a lot of people like to think because of the social norm that we have in this world that you know A man and a woman needs to be together and or you know, you just need to be one person But it's it's it's it's it's it has to be a personal thing. It is a personal thing, you know, cuz You could you're not gonna just eat one food all your life are you?
No, you're not gonna eat just don't it's all your life not gonna eat to see her you're not just gonna eat pizza unless you will Lot little yada, you ain't gonna do that. So like, you know, you guys you guys have to look at it a different way So let me just start with this so you know, I believe that yeah, I could be in open relationship and be able to you know You'll just still love that person have that, you know connection with them and just look at someone else's just you know Fling, you know, it's just not even a fling. It's me getting Whatever I want out of the way should whether that's someone to talk to where that's sex whether that's you know, I don't need someone to go Yoga or the baseball game. I don't I don't do either of those but you get what I'm saying, you know It's not always like a betrayal of one's love or trust of someone the loyalty of someone That's not that's not what these are they there are situations like that where you know You trust someone to go out and you know be with someone else whether you guys are like not living together You're on a different city or something like that y'all so one of y'all are out of town and stuff and or even jail A lot of couples doing in jail where it's like, you know, we're separated We can't be together so I still need that connection I still need that you know, love and affection that I can't get from you right now Doesn't mean that I don't like you but from what I'm trying to give an example of a few that messed us up Some people take advantage of that just knowing that they don't like the person that they're with you know I can tell you like until you guys the story.
I was talking to one girl, you know, and I was telling her like oh, yeah You went over relationship like that's cool, you know, you know, why I'm getting over relationship and she told me It was a stopping boyfriend from cheating. I was I was just like damn shorty like like that's that's the real messed up Like you you have to stop him from cheating on you by having an open relationship And you like but I understand women some women some women some people even men will do that do that too Where you just love someone that you're going to do whatever you got to do to keep them together and let me just say this If someone is a pressure pressure you into if they're pressuring you into open relationship or doing stuff that you're not comfortable with It is completely fine to say no, and that's the whole point of you know These open relationships and these political relationships where it's you know, there's it's deeper than just sex You know for polygamists who want more than one wife or husband and everything, you know, it could be yeah I want more I want different, you know, men or different women and everything so and I love these four or five Whatever amount of people I'm willing to start a family with them, you know, if you research a lot of polygamy families They believe in in like, you know, community, you know, where like I like even if that's not my kid, you are my kid You're on your own. I'm gonna take care of you like you're my own like niggas doing the streets You know you're young dude, young streets No mom no dad You're just trying to find your way in life and the drug deal it comes and put something in your hand and be like Hey, I'm gonna show you away. I'm gonna get you this bread, bro and So I know as a society is kind of moved away from that because there's been a lot of because there's been a lot of people that kind of like You know, they're ruining it like with the whole one and Jada and I'm a really would watch that and it's just you know, they'll be at the end of the video Because I believe just from here and every just clips and everything I've seen it seems like they have a connection where they've been together They've raised kids.
They've you know come to an understanding with each other and they're comfortable with themselves That's the one thing you need to be comfortable with yourself I understand that it's hard to even think of someone else touching something you love It's like someone touching your things and touching your money like not to make a material But like like like it's a it's a it's an emotional connection, you know here emotions So many of you a man or woman or just an animal you're going to have those connections That's why dogs snap and go off when they're loved ones are threatened. I don't know what else to you know Kind of make this clear But I want to make clear is that if you don't agree just say you don't agree You know, why can't we just agree to disagree and let people do what they want to do if they're not trying to force you into it They're not trying to you know, force someone you love into against their will if they're not like hurting someone Like if it's really unbotters you, you know what I do when something bothers me I leave I go somewhere else so I get them out of my face And that doesn't mean by destroying them killing them just so that you know you can walk away or you can ignore them I'm good at ignoring things, you know, but as far as you know As far as like, you know, the whole you know, they know the people are having multiple others or being swingers whatever your fancy is You know, there are levels to this there are people that just want to sleep around There's people that want to have different connections with people There's people that want to have a stable household and know that if one of the parents is gone There's five more behind them, you know, I like if I had if I had the money and the ability to You know, I loved I don't know if I love so many women, but if I was able to take care of so many people You know, it's like I don't want to do that to like like I don't want to do that for my cousins and my you know future nieces and nephews And you know, my family like I want to be able to you know, give people opportunity That's what I would do if I have wives I have them be like having their own businesses They own this and then I want you to travel I want to learn what y'all want to do this I want to create means creative I would probably have a whole bunch of like creative chicks like it's like like what is videographers or artists, you know drawing digital That's that like well, they tiling like it's always all about it's it's more than just sex. It's more than just It's more than that When you're talking about building a community That's what us as African Americans, you know for the people that are watching this on Or even or even I'm pretty sure whatever on there's like Indian cultures like there's so many cultures We at a time as a human race was able to we took care of each other, you know Even if you think back in early American all that stuff, you know, even back in the even back in the day of our grandparents You know the 80s, the 90s, the 90s like like you do something bad in the street Oh, ladies, Jenkins or old man wetters or whoever they're going to come tell your mama And your mom and your daddy's going whoop you they won't whoop you or though I'm Jenkins and all that stuff. She's going whoop you and then mama's gonna whoop you to get like and that's it That's not cool either, but it's all about taking responsibility So even as a community, you know when someone's out there and they're destroying the neighborhood They're killing people, you know, we actually have murders in in our communities, you know It's one thing for hey recaliation But you do is they're just shooting at crowds and people and just being reckless your murders So your body count don't mean nothing to me, but for those of us who wants to keep this community together You need to take responsibility and so even then a relationship as tight as as tight as believe in your tight as the open relationship You have to have that connection with someone yet that trust you have to have that, you know, love and support You need to make sure that they don't feel like they are lesser than you know You know make it because it doesn't have to be that serious You guys it doesn't and I'm like it's cool if you're not into it It's cool because there's a lot of things that I'm not into and then that's a whole nother video Probably like five parks, but I'm just I'm just understanding more often and I want I want us to all come to a middle ground with everything You know, I can't get everything in the world.
I know that but I can at least try So that's all that's all I want to do think think about it be a research, you know Come up with your own opinion. Don't just go off the mind, but you know Let's get to the middle ground. This is this will say daydream Make subscribe. Thank you all for listening come back with my video