Are white lies destroying your marriage?

Are white lies destroying your marriage? One of the things I’ve observed that can be very damaging to a marriage is the habit some have of giving themselves permission to tell “white lies” to their spouse.   Perhaps you have fallen into this trap. I’m not talking about being tactful, polite or choosing your words carefully to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, but about deliberately misleading or saying something is true that you know is not true.  Because they are not about something important or critical, we justify these lies and say they are no big deal.  But these seemingly harmless white lies can do significant harm to your marriage because they can injure the trust in your relationship.  Let me remind you that trust is foundational to a healthy and strong marriage. You can’t really be close to someone you don’t trust. In addition to eroding trust, lying is damaging because one lie usually leads to another. If this is your marriage, this can stop and things can change.  This recording will give you five steps to turn around this destructive pattern and start rebuilding trust again.    What suggestions would you give someone who is struggling with lying?   If you found this helpful, please check out this video/podcast episode - How to create an atmosphere of honesty in your marriage. Youtube - https://youtu.be/5K4Lg_COrpo Podcast - https://anchor.fm/turnituppodcast/episodes/Creating-an-atmosphere-of-honesty-in-your-marriage-e1kd84r   Please like, subscribe, share, comment and review. Your engagement helps me reach more people with helpful faith based marriage tools like this one.   Would you like a roadmap, a guide that will tell you how to have the lifelong marriage that you really want?  I wrote a book that will give you practical and easy to understand tools that will help you do this. It's called Turn it Up! - How to have the lifelong marriage that you really want.  If you’d like some marriage coaching, please give me a call. Let’s take 15 minutes and I’ll let you know how I can help you.   All you need to do is go to my website, https://turnitup.coach.  While you are there, You can book a call, email me your questions, and buy my book.   You are also invited to join my free facebook group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/turnitupgroup  May God bless you and may God bless your marriage!