Are you a Rock or a Rocket?

This Episode:This week’s episode is a particular barnburner. For our inaugural deep dive into this moment in heterosexual marriage/parenting/ephemara, we’re going to camp! We’re talking gender socialization (always), but also personality taxonomies, and whether they’re forces for good or evil; Fair Play cards, and where they do and don’t get us; and of course, what we mean by all this Rock and Rocket business (in case you’re wondering, a lady rocket is a Rockette, because we have decreed it to be so). Also, don’t worry, we definitely wrap things up by objectifying at least one cartoon character (that’s the This Week In Breeders promise!).Links:* Marriage and the 4 Personality Types* On Elizabeth Gilbert (Jia Tolentino)* On Moms Gone Wild (Sarah)* On KC Davis and mess (Sarah)* On Ethan Coen and Tricia Cooke’s marriage* On cartoon abs so good it’ll make your eyes pop like popcornMore About TWIB:What’s this? A podcast? Thank God somebody finally thought of having one of those. But wait, this one is different. We’ve got two hosts, a fella AND a lady. That’s the kind of innovation you can expect from us over at This Week In Breeders HQ.What else can you expect? The best darn conversations about gender that we’re capable of offering, at a time when jeez louise there is so much Gender To Discuss.Please listen! And spread the word! But before you go and do so, some business!* Where can you listen? Anywhere you find podcasts. Apple. Spotify. Deep in the darkest woods, underneath a mossy rock, where you whisper your secrets. And also right here.* Subscribe! We’re not always going to announce every episode on our individual newsletters, so becoming a subscriber to this one specifically will ensure that you don’t miss an episode.* How frequently will episodes come out? Initially, we’re aiming for once every other week, but we’ll see. It won’t be overwhelming. We’re going to do these for a while (how long, we’ll see?) and then take a break when it feels reasonable. Doesn’t that sound relaxed and* Speaking of subscribing, we highly recommend becoming a PAID SUBSCRIBER, because (a). we literally are paying for this out of pocket and we may or may not have talked to our spouses about that impact on our respective familial budgets (b). while this first episode is completely free, future episodes will frequently be either fully or partially paywalled. Another subscription? In this economy? Yes, we know, but the good news is that Sarah and Garrett both have a hefty discount code that we’ll be offering to existing subscribers of our newsletters:Sarah Wheeler’s Momspreading or The White Pages. Stay tuned for those links (though we also appreciate all of you who want to subscribe to the podcast alone).* But, and if you subscribe to all three (Sarah’s newsletter, Garrett’s newsletter and the podcast), Garrett will send you not one but two pieces of cool merch that he made (this design on a shirt or a tote and/or a very hip hat that says POTLUCKS! on it). Just toss him an email (garrett at barnraisersproject.org). This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.thisweekinbreeders.org/subscribe