Are you an Influencer or a Controller?

If you are putting your hope in someone else changing their choices and behavior you will eventually feel exasperated. It is impossible to receive God’s mercy, love and healing for another person, even though we often wish we could! A controller is always trying to work with what’s outside of them…fixing and adjusting. An influencer is living from the perspective that “who I am” is organically affecting my environment and atmosphere.