Are You Being Influenced or Manipulated? by Jonathan H. Westover PhD

Abstract: The article explores the distinction between ethical influence and unethical manipulation within organizational leadership. It defines influence as the process of affecting others through trust-based means like persuasion and inspiration, while manipulation involves controlling and deceiving people to serve the manipulator's self-interest. The article outlines several signs of manipulation, including withholding information, excessive pressure, appealing to self-interest over shared values, and exploiting personal vulnerabilities. It then provides guidance for addressing manipulation, such as building awareness, facilitating open feedback, distributing decision-making authority, cultivating shared purpose, and offering support and accountability systems. The article uses a case study of a tech startup to illustrate how these principles can be applied in practice to transform a toxic, manipulative culture into a collaborative, high-trust environment focused on the organization's mission. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices