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EPISODE · Nov 6, 2025 · 47 MIN

Are you just doing this for attention?

from Big Bi+ Questions

Are bi+ people really just doing it for attention? On this episode, our guest was L.A. based singer-songwriter Lucy & La Mer, whose music radiates self-love and joy while celebrating multi-gender attracted identity. Lucy let us know about her bi+ identity and activism, as well as her passion for creating music that makes people feel good. Together, we unpacked the harmful stereotype that bi+ people are just doing it for attention, exploring how it shows up differently across genders, how it impacts dating and relationships, and how we can avoid others placing this stereotype on us. Find out more about Lucy & La Mer and her music at listentolucy.com, on Instagram @lucyandlamer, and more at linktr.ee/lucyandlamer. If any of the topics in this episode brought up difficult or intense feelings for you, we encourage you to reach out for support from a trusted friend, community, or mental health professional. You can find a list of organisations you can turn to for support at joy.org.au/support. Connect with the Big Bi+ Questions team on Instagram @bigbiquestions or email us at [email protected]. Give us a big bi+ question to tackle or share your experiences. We’d love to hear from you! Listen to more Big Bi+ Questions episodes at joy.org.au/bigbiquestions The post Are you just doing this for attention? appeared first on Big Bi+ Questions.

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