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EPISODE · May 29, 2026 · 45 MIN

Are You Losing Yourself In Relationships?

from Notes To Young People · host NTYP

Send us Fan MailIs it possible to love someone deeply without completely losing yourself? 💔 In this episode of Notes to Young People, we dive heavy into the battle between hyper-independence and codependency in modern relationships.Our childhood friend Rebecca joins the couch to share how she navigates a 7-year age gap with her boyfriend, why she had to stay single to "figure herself out" , and the exact habits required to keep your individuality alive while sharing a life with someone else. We talk about everything from the psychology of "parallel play", the absolute necessity of financial independence for women, to calling out the subtle red flags when a partner secretly tries to control your schedule. If you've ever struggled to balance your dream self with your relationship status...or If you've ever thought  “Am I losing myself in this relationship?”...orIf you've wondered “How do healthy couples balance independence and closeness?”THIS CONVERSATION IS FOR YOU!Our family debates:-how relationships can change people-maintaining your identity while in love-healthy vs unhealthy attachment-independence in long-term relationships-becoming the version of yourself someone else wants🔔 Subscribe to Notes to Young People for unfiltered discussions of life, love, and adulting! #NotesToYoungPeople #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #Independence #LoveBombing #ParallelPlay #FinancialIndependence #Relationships #DatingAdvice #Codependency #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipPodcast #LoveAdvice #YoungAdults #SelfWorth #Interdependence #IndependenceInRelationships If our content has taught or entertained you, consider buying us a coffee. ☕️ 💕 https://buymeacoffee.com/notestoyoungpeopleIf you're interested in 1-on-1 Relationship Coaching Click below 👇https://buymeacoffee.com/notestoyoungpeople/e/388989 🎙️ Watch Notes To Young People on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RKK4Tfh1Woc&list=PLVIDlNqutznlMaUo5dOFyetbmXKeZS2BW ♡ Follow us on Instagram @NotesToYoungPeople https://www.instagram.com/notestoyoungpeople/# ♡ Follow us on TikTok@NotesToYoungPeople https://www.tiktok.com/@notestoyoungpeople?lang=en ♡ Follow us on Twitter@NTYPpodcasthttps://x.com/NTYPpodcast♡ BUSINESS & ENQUIRY [email protected]...

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