Are You Lying to Yourself About What You Really Want? | The Nebulum Podcast Episode #13

What do you do when you already know the answer but don't want to admit it to yourself? In this episode of The Nebulum Podcast, Zale and Grant explore the tension between what we know we want and what we allow ourselves to pursue. They discuss recognizing when you truly resonate with your path, the role of fear in stifling our inner signals, and the bravery required to make difficult decisions that disrupt stability.If you've ever felt torn between comfort and calling, this conversation will meet you where you are.VIDEO CHAPTERS:0:00 - Introduction0:45 - Resonating With Your Path2:58 - The Self-Deception Problem4:00 - Fear, Bravery, and What We're Taught to Fear6:03 - Making Decisions When Emotions Fluctuate8:08 - Faith and Trust in Your Inner Calling9:01 - Following Intuition Despite Fear10:05 - How It Feels After Making a Decision12:02 - External Validation vs. Internal Knowing15:31 - The Cost of Not Following What You Know19:44 - Uncomfortable Honesty About What You Want24:22 - Commitment and Being "All In"26:40 - Identity: Who Do You Want to Be?29:58 - Regret vs. Opportunity32:46 - The Problem with Doing Things Halfway37:22 - Recognizing When You're Excited vs. When You're Not40:54 - Worst-Case Scenario Thinking43:33 - The Community Question: Finding Support45:55 - Demystifying the Unknown51:00 - Learning from Others' Experiences52:05 - Overcoming Communication Anxiety Through Worst-Case Analysis54:32 - What Do You Fear More?56:22 - Reflective PromptsConnect with The Nebulum Podcast:🔔 Subscribe for more conversations on living a fulfilling life.CONNECT WITH US Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nebulumstudios/ Substack: https://nebulum.substack.com/ Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Hy6uSKkb9bPWOdOiiBrxSYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@NebulumStudiosArt by https://www.instagram.com/luhjusto/ Nebulum Logo Light by https://www.instagram.com/wallermade/https://linktr.ee/nebulumstudios