Are You Really Happy with Your Life? If Not, Listen Now and Do This!

18: It's really easy to get sucked into the day to day routine and then abandon ourselves. When I say abandon I mean that we're not giving enough ME time to ourselves. If that's the case, then how will we ever have a great relationship ourselves?  🤷‍♀️How can love ourselves more and get to know what we truly want? So, a great place to start is to ask yourself this one very simple question.  👉ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE? If you're not aware, it's easy to get sucked in to other people's business and you end up with a mediocre life that you detest. And then if you start to give yourself excuses and then you tolerate everything and everyone around you. However, once you ask yourself this question and you're really serious about taking matters into your own hands, the Universe will step right in to support you.  🙋‍♀️It starts with having the courage to look at your life from a very honest point of view. If you've created this 'mess', then only you can change it - no one else! There're basically 4 areas of life that we desire to thrive in. 1. LOVE 2. CAREER 3. LIFE PURPOSE 4. MONEY Go down the list and do a self check to see how you're doing in each department.  💃We can definitely have it all but it requires work and brutal honesty with thyself. And when one area is thriving it'll overflow into other areas of your life. Most women cannot compartmentalise their emotions (I think I can but I can't) so it's vital that we've emotional clarity on what's going on with our life. I'm aware that my marriage is taking a toll on my energy and I'm spending most of my energy resenting my marriage.  💁‍♀️So since this is the energy sucker, I've to suck it up and handle this first. That was what I did. You can't be happy and angry at the same time. So I want to get this out of the way so that I can have space for other areas of my life. True enough. Once I decided to make the appointment with the lawyer, everything else started to fall into place. Don't rush the process. Change and transformation takes time. Key is that you're aware of what's really going on in your life. The Universe gives you more of what you tolerate. Stop tolerating now! ⠀ With Gratitude, Elyse-Anne P.S. Have you joined the 280,000++ members on Instagram @TheWomanofInfluence?