Are you stuck in the wilderness?

Distractions don’t allow an 11 day journey to take you 40 days in the book of Numbers it describes that it is about wander in the wilderness and it further talks about that while it may be necessary to pass through wilderness experiences. One does not have to live there. What are you stuck in that you’re not allowing God to work on the definition of slavery says that it means excessive dependence on or devotion to something. What is that thing that God is telling you to release that you continue to hang onto so my question to you is are you stuck in the wilderness? Are you allowing an 11 day journey to take you 40 years to come out of.