Are You Trying To Get People To Choose You?

Are you hoping someone chooses you?  Are you seeking to be chosen?In codependency, these impulses to get someone to choose us is a reflection of how unchosen we were growing up.Sometimes we feel chosen by  parent, but not by peers.  Sometimes it is both.  Sometimes it is peers, but not a parent.When this is prominent, it creates a profound sense of being less-than and that we have to compensate for this perceived lack by trying to get people to see us, value us, and choose us.People-pleasing, perfectionism, and being a high achiever are ways we try to get that to happen.Learn how to end the habit of chasing love, inclusion, and approval and what to do to get the attention, care, and inclusion you seek in today's episode.***Seeking help in healing codependency? Join The Heal Your Codependency Community and get access to weekly experiments, practices, and support in your healing journey: https://community.freetheself.com***Connect with me on social media and via email, and learn more about how I heal codependency permanently even when therapy and self-help efforts have failed you: https://links.freetheself.com***[The 8 Factors That Heal Codependency Permanently Workshop]This 1-day training is for codependents, perfectionists, and people-pleasers who have struggled to find healing in their private therapy or self-help efforts.  I will show you why your efforts to heal from codependency haven't worked, why that is NOT your fault, and I will give you my proven strategy that makes ends your needs for codependency permanently.Specifically, you will learn:1) What the actual cause of codependent behaviors is and how that unlocks permanent healing2) The 3 Necessities that drive your well-being and happiness3) The 8 factors that end codependency permanently while creating a life you enjoyYou will also receive your opportunities to enroll in my 8-week foundation Live training, The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings.  These trainings guide through implementing the essential practices and concepts that nurture the 8 Factors of Well-being in your daily life.Here are the workshop details:Date: February 22, 2023Class Time: 11am and 6pm Mountain Time (I teach it twice for your convenience)Investment: FreeReplay Availability:  The replay will be available February 23, 2023Reserve your seat here: https://workshop.freetheself.com