EPISODE · Apr 1, 2025 · 18 MIN
Are You Using Friends as Crutches?
from Islamic Life Coach School Podcast · host Kanwal Akhtar
Female friendships provide irreplaceable support as our cheerleaders, therapists, and comedy specials rolled into one, but they can subtly transform from empowering sisterhoods into dependency cycles that erode self-trust. The danger lies in constantly seeking validation from others instead of trusting our own judgment, slowly outsourcing our decision-making and disconnecting from our inner guidance.• The difference between seeking advice versus seeking permission• How dependency on external validation chips away at self-respect• Why constantly polling friends for decisions teaches us our judgment isn't enough• Common subconscious lies we tell ourselves about friendship and decision-making• Reframing discomfort as an invitation to reconnect with yourself• The paradox that less approval-seeking creates deeper connections• Practical steps to rebuild self-trust while maintaining meaningful friendships• Why true friendships reflect your power back to you instead of replacing itMay our relationships be sources of love, growth, and peace, with our confidence always rooted in Allah alone.I invite you to join The Ummi Collective. It is a weekly coaching program for Muslim mothers raising children on the autism spectrum.Inside, you learn how to support your child’s development in a way that builds independence, confidence, and long-term success... without losing yourself in the process.Apply for a Commitment Rate todayhttps://www.islamiclifecoachschool.com/offers/RRn2EBEC/chec
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Female friendships provide irreplaceable support as our cheerleaders, therapists, and comedy specials rolled into one, but they can subtly transform from empowering sisterhoods into dependency cycles that erode self-trust. The danger lies in constantly seeking validation from others instead of trusting our own judgment, slowly outsourcing our decision-making and disconnecting from our inner guidance. • The difference between seeking advice versus seeking permission • How dependency on extern...
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