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Jul 19, 2026 35 min

Ask for What You Want

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There comes a point in life when you stop apologizing for your needs and start honoring them. In this episode of The Well Done Life, I’m sharing a realization that settled deeply into my spirit after a few beautiful conversations with friends about love, relationships, and life. For the first time in a long time, I realized I can ask my husband for what I want because I know he has both the willingness and the capability to meet me there. That kind of emotional safety changes everything. It also made me reflect on seasons of my life when I poured my time, love, and energy into wonderful people who simply couldn’t provide that same safety. Not because they were bad people—but because they weren’t able to give what I needed. In this conversation, we’re talking about the courage to get honest with ourselves, the importance of communicating our needs, and why emotional safety isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. We deserve relationships where vulnerability is welcomed, where our voices matter, and where we also create that same safe space for the people we love. Because healing isn’t just about finding safe people. It’s also about becoming one. Connect with me: Instagram: @thewelldonelife Threads: @thewelldonelife Email: [email protected] and [email protected] Thank you for listening. Text me your feedback. I really appreciate you!

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There comes a point in life when you stop apologizing for your needs and start honoring them. In this episode of The Well Done Life, I’m sharing a realization that settled deeply into my spirit after a few beautiful conversations with friends about love, relationships, and life. For the first time in a long time, I realized I can ask my husband for what I want because I know he has both the willingness and the capability to meet me there. That kind of emotional safety changes everything. ...

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