018: Ask the Sexologist: Painful Sex, Desire Mismatch, G-Spot Myths & More

Real, anonymous questions about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and everything we were never properly taught.Book a session⁠ | ⁠Join The Self Love Club⁠ | ⁠Ask me anything⁠ | ⁠Shop enhancement products⁠ | ⁠Shop TOYS! From painful sex without lube to why the G-spot can feel elusive, this episode is packed with practical, sex-positive education you can actually use. No shame, no fluff, just honest answers and tools that help you feel more confident in your body and your relationships.In this episode, we cover:• Why sex can suddenly feel painful without lube, even if it never used to• How arousal, aging, and perimenopause affect natural lubrication• Why lubrication increases pleasure, comfort, and sexual health• Recommended books for healing intimacy and deepening desire• What the G-spot really is and why it can be hard to stimulate consistently• How breath, mindset, and warming up the body support stronger orgasms• Why rushing foreplay makes orgasms harder, not easier• How to get out of your head and back into your body during sex• What to do when partners have mismatched libidos• Why intimacy does not always have to mean penetration• How toys can support connection, not replace it• Best positions and pleasure tips when trying to conceive• Body confidence, lights-off sex, and easing sexual insecurity• Simple, approachable ways to initiate intimacy and try new thingsJennifer also shares practical tools like breathing techniques, foreplay timing ideas, pleasure-first mindset shifts, and ways couples can communicate more openly about their needs without pressure or guilt.If you have ever wondered “Is this normal?” this episode is for you.✨ Have a question you want answered on the show?Submit anonymously at www.selfmadediva.comIf you enjoyed this episode, leave a review, share it with a friend, or send it to that group chat that definitely needs it.Stay curious. Stay turned on. And as always, keep sipping. 🍷