Asking 'How' is Killing Your Dreams with Blaine Bartlett | The Grateful Podcast Ep. 127

Send us Fan MailThe Grateful Podcast with Jack Wagoner episode 127Guesting Blaine BartlettHe wrote a bucket list at 18 with 20 goals he had no idea how to achieve. By 24, every single one was done — without ever asking "how." Blaine Bartlett has spent 53 years studying how people actually succeed. He's coached executives across five continents, co-hosts Office Hours on Apple TV with David Meltzer, and wrote his first book alongside Stephen Covey, Ken Blanchard, and Brian Tracy. Bob Proctor called his work "some of the best material on prosperity I have experienced."In this conversation, Blaine reveals why asking "how" too early is the trap that kills every goal, what Napoleon Hill's banned book Outwitting the Devil says about why we drift through life, and why the real purpose of a goal is never to get; it's to grow. He also shares the moment his wife received a terrifying diagnosis and the five words she said that changed their entire journey together.This is one of the most important conversations I've ever had on this podcast.⏱️ Chapters:0:00 — Introduction1:05 — Marcus Aurelius: "Spend Time with the Dead"2:30 — Your Belief Systems Are Manufactured5:01 — 20 Goals at 18, All Done by 248:11 — Napoleon Hill's Banned Book10:09 — Why "How" Should NEVER Come Up Early12:19 — BECOMING the Commitment (Not Just Making One)17:35 — What He Calls a "Growl"23:37 — A Letter from Harvard Changed Everything28:29 — Energy Follows Attention, Not Intention30:26 — "It Already Happened. I Just Haven't Arrived."34:08 — Why You Feel Empty After Getting What You Wanted42:24 — The Duality of Gratitude and Ambition44:20 — His Wife's Diagnosis: "There Is an Unexpected Opportunity Here"46:40 — Be a Center of Distribution🔗 Connect with Blaine Bartlett:► Website: https://www.blainebartlett.com► LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/blainebartlett📖 Blaine's books on Amazon:→ Compassionate Capitalism: https://www.amazon.com/sk=blaine+bartlett+compassionate+capitalism→ The Leadership Mindset Weekly: https://www.amazon.com/sk=blaine+bartlett+leadership+mindset☕ Magic Mind — My daily performance shot:→ https://magicmind.com/wagoner20Use code WAGONER20 for 20% off a package or 48% off a subscription.🧠 More from Jack:► Website: https://jackwagoner.co► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jack_wagoner_/► 1:1 Coaching: [email protected]📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jack_Wagoner⸻🎙️ About Jack:I moved to France alone at 16, started my first business at 17, and launched this podcast because I kept meeting people who had the answers to questions I didn't even know I was asking.  My philosophy: you can set massive goals while being deeply fulfilled right now. That's the duality of gratitude and ambition.Support the show☕ Magic Mind — My daily performance shot:→ https://magicmind.com/wagoner20Use code WAGONER20 for 20% off a package or 48% off a subscription.🧠 More from Jack:► Website: https://jackwagoner.co► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jack_wagoner_/► 1:1 Coaching: [email protected]📺 Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jack_Wagoner⸻🎙️ About Jack:I moved to France alone at 16, started my first business at 17, and launched this podcast because I kept meeting people who had the answers to questions I didn't even know I was asking.  My philosophy: you can set massive goals while being deeply fulfilled right now. That's the duality of gratitude and ambition.Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode.Stay grateful, stay hungry.