Assumption

Fr. Simon shares some really practical thoughts on how our assumptions can unintentionally cloud our judgment of both others and ourselves. He points out that, just like the Pharisees in the Gospel, we often build a mental fog that keeps us from seeing people clearly or understanding the true state of our own hearts. He reminds us that we aren't mind readers, even with the people we love most, and that assuming we know someone's motives or feelings usually leads to unnecessary distance. He also touches on how we might underestimate our own capacity to make mistakes, referencing the wisdom in 1 Corinthians 4:4, "For I know of nothing against myself, yet I am not justified by this; but He who judges me is the Lord." Ultimately, he suggests that instead of getting stuck in our heads, we should focus on praying for clear vision, communicating openly and directly with others, and staying focused on our own goals and actions. It's a gentle, human-centered approach to finding more peace in our relationships.