⏳At 26 you still haven't...

In this episode, Koke unpacks the aspirational timeline, the social expectation, and the specific, uneven pressure that lands on women when they fail to meet it.From old Nollywood to the church pew to the auntie at the family -- the expectation is everywhere. Nobody agreed to it. Nobody can even say exactly where it came from. And yet, somehow, all of us have internalised it so deeply that we use it to measure ourselves and everyone around us without a second thought.Koke asks: who wrote this schedule? What does it mean to be behind? And why are we so convinced that the person in front of us is running the same race?If you have ever felt behind -- in your career, your relationships, your life -- this one is for you. And if you have ever made someone else feel that way, this one is especially for you.  ★ Support this podcast ★