EPISODE · Aug 11, 2026 · 8 MIN
Athlete Tip: Your Coach Doesn't Hate You (Here's What's Really Happening)
from Raising Elite Competitors · host Coach Bre
Think your coach hates you? Watch this before you believe it. Athletes: take this quiz to find out your competitor style → https://elitecompetitor.com/athlete📌 Resources & Tools:FREE for YOU:🎓 Strengthen Your Athlete's Mental Game - Training for Parents → https://trainhergame.com/mom|📬 Join our weekly TIPS newsletter → https://sportsmom.fyi/yt-tips💬 Use this Conversation Guide w/ Scripts to talk to your athlete about mental training → https://sportsmom.fyi/convo-guide🎙 Listen to the Podcast: Raising Elite CompetitorsFREE for Athletes:🔹 Take this quiz to find out your competitor style → https://elitecompetitor.com/athlete🎥 YouTube Playlist for Athletes → https://www.youtube.com/@AthleteMentalEdgeOUR SIGNATURE PROGRAMS:👉 Join The Elite Mental Game for girl athletes → https://trainhergame.com/yt-emgConnect with us!IG: ➡︎ https://www.instagram.com/elitecompetitorcoachTik Tok: ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@raisingelitecompetitorsYouTube: ➡︎ SUBSCRIBE 🙌🏼 and hang out in our community here with us!⏰ Key Timestamps:👋🏼 I'm Coach Bre, a mental performance coach for girl athletes, Co-Founder of The Elite Competitor, and a former head volleyball coach and 4-time state champion.If you've ever thought your coach was picking on you or didn't like you, this one's for you. I'm breaking down what's actually happening when a coach keeps correcting you versus when a coach goes quiet.I'm also giving you the exact script to use when you need your coach to give you more feedback or clarity on your role.What You'll Learn:✅ How to tell the difference between a coach who's investing in you and a coach who's checked out✅ Why the thought "my coach doesn't like me" makes practice and games harder than they need to be✅ The Thought Wheel, how one thought shapes your feelings, actions, and results without you noticing✅ A real story about a player who thought she was being picked on and was actually being coached✅ Exact words to use when you need to ask your coach for more feedback or clarityAthletes — take this quiz to find out your competitor style → https://elitecompetitor.com/athleteP.S. A few stats worth knowing:⚡️A poor coach relationship was a significant driver of youth athletes leaving their sport, per a 2024 qualitative study of 20 youth athletes (Cogent Social Sciences, 2024)⚡️Roughly 35% of youth sport participants leave their programs annually, and by age 13, an estimated 70% have left sport altogether (Kinesiology Review, 2024)⚡️A study of 258 competitive gymnasts found negative self-talk predicted higher competition anxiety and lower performance, while positive self-talk predicted better results (PLOS ONE, 2022)The Raising Elite Competitors podcast and YouTube channel is hosted by The Elite Competitor and is dedicated to helping sports moms strengthen their daughter's mental game and confidence in order to help her perform her best when it matters most.#raisingelitecompetitors #sportsmom #mentaltraining #girlathletes #confidence
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Think your coach hates you? Watch this before you believe it. Athletes: take this quiz to find out your competitor style → https://elitecompetitor.com/athlete 📌 Resources & Tools: FREE for YOU: 🎓 Strengthen Your Athlete's Mental Game - Training for Parents → https://trainhergame.com/mom |📬 Join our weekly TIPS newsletter → https://sportsmom.fyi/yt-tips 💬 Use this Conversation Guide w/ Scripts to talk to your athlete about mental training → https://sportsmom.fyi/convo-guide ...
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