Attachment Theory and Boarding School | Why Having A Secure Childhood Does Not Prepare You | AEM #119 Anne Power

What is attachment theory? And how does your attachment style affect your time at boarding school?In a fascinating conversation, leading attachment expert, Anne Power, talks about the four attachment styles of secure, avoidant, anxious ambivalent and disorganized.What are their experiences of boarding school like? Does the securely attached child do well? Does everyone come out of boarding school with an avoidant attachment?---Anne Power, is a couple counsellor and has taught psychotherapy and supervision on university courses in London. She has published many academic papers on attachment and two books. She started her counselling work thirty years ago. Her initial training was as a psychoanalytic psychotherapist with a special interest in attachment theory. Later she trained in a systemic model and this integration – of attachment and systemic thinking - matches with EFT (Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy) which is the model in which she is now developing her practice.Annie posts on Instagram most days with supportive ideas about relationships - that's at  'and_attachment'  Her TEDx talk provides a brief overview of attachment theory and has over 600k views. Some of the questions and areas interest:I would love for you to share some of your journey. How did you arrive at doing what you do now?Would you please introduce us to attachment theory. What is it? Could you talk a little about the different forms of attachment? (p. 15)Could you please speak to how attachment theory relates to relationships? Why does connection to ourselves better equip us for relationships?What happens when a child with one of the 4 attachment styles arrives at boarding school?In your research will secure kids thrive at boarding schools? If not, why not? What happens to their relationship with their parents?What about avoidants. How do they cope with separation from home?How about ambivalents? How do they cope with boarding school?What about disorganized attachment? How is boarding school for them?Some other areas to talk about:NeurodivergentLearningFor more information about Anne Power please visit: https://www.contentedcouples.com/#attachmenttheory #attachment #boardingschoolOr to purchase her book: https://www.karnacbooks.com/product/contented-couples-magic-logic-or-luck/96376/?MATCH=1And for her Instagram & Ted X Talk: https://www.instagram.com/and_attachmenthttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9idayJyWCWs&t=204s---Piers is an author and a men's transformational coach and therapist who works mainly with trauma, boarding school issues, addictions and relationship problems. He also runs online men's groups for ex-boarders, retreats and a podcast called An Evolving Man. He is also the author of How to Survive and Thrive in Challenging Times. To purchase Piers first book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Survive-Thrive-Challenging-Times/dp/B088T5L251/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=piers+cross&qid=1609869608&sr=8-1 For more videos please visit: http://youtube.com/pierscross For FB: https://www.facebook.com/pierscrosspublic For Piers' website and a free training How To Find Peace In Everyday Life: https://www.piers-cross.com/community Many blessings, Piers Cross http://piers-cross.com/