Attention

Many times over and over again we seek validation from others not because we feel good about ourselves but because we dont. It's one thing to ask if this looks good on me because I need an opinion, but it's another if I'm asking because without your validation I don't feel good about myself. There comes a time when we need to ask ourselves that great old question "why" and answer honestly. It's in that "why" that determines if validation is what we are asking or an opinion. What are you 'why"