Attraction Is Not Negotiable - Or Is It.. Why Am I A Dating Coach?

Attraction is not a choice! This is a phrase you've probably heard around the place -  Frequently on my Youtube comments, I'll have men decrying dating coaching as a scam activity because you can't negotiate with attraction. So is this dating mindset patently wrong? Is that what I believe? Is that what I tell myself to sleep well at night as a dating coach for over a decade? Oddly enough, I think there's a lot of truth to the basic notion - But today I want to talk about this concept and why there's so much more to the world of attracting women that one neat little phrase so easily misses along the way.