AuDHD Relationship Goals & The Intersection Of Neurodiversity & Gender

Content creators Lori-Jade and Max Siegel join Ben for an honest, deeply human conversation about late diagnosis, identity and what it means to build a life together as a neurodivergent couple.Both diagnosed with AuDHD in adulthood, they reflect on being missed for decades - from masking and misdiagnosis to the quiet grief of realising how different things could have been. They explore how gender, queerness and hormones shape their neurodivergent experience, and what happens when both partners are navigating sensory needs, communication and regulation in real time.If you’re navigating late diagnosis, identity or relationships as a neurodivergent adult, this episode is for you.Join us at hidden20.org/donate.________Host: Ben BransonProduction Manager: Phoebe De LeiburnéVideo Editor: James ScrivenSocial Media Manager: Charlie YoungMusic: Jackson GreenbergHead of Marketing: Kristen Fuller00:00 Introduction01:52 Late Autism Diagnosis & Where It All Begins05:57 Early ND Experiences & Feeling Different11:38 Self-Awareness & ADHD Masking16:21 Life Before Diagnosis23:59 Recognition & Getting Assessed For ADHD27:45 Understanding Yourself After Autism Diagnosis37:56 ND Communication Differences Explained43:13 Discomfort, Boundaries & Misunderstandings48:22 Trust, Relationships & Being Honest52:09 Daily Life, Challenges & Coping56:22 Gratitude & Positive Reflections1:00:55 Identity, Background & Personal History1:09:10 Shared ND Experiences & Validation1:18:43 Overstimulation & Sensory Struggles1:23:38 Secondary Impacts Of ND1:28:59 Lori & Max's Green Dot of LightThe Hidden 20% is a charity founded by AuDHD entrepreneur, Ben Branson.Our mission is simple: To change how the world sees neurodivergence.No more stigma. No more shame. No more silence.1 in 5 people are neurodivergent. That’s 1.6 billion of us - yet too many are still excluded, misunderstood, or left without support.To break the cycle, we amplify voices, challenge myths, and keep showing up. Spotlighting stories, stats and hard truths. Smashing stereotypes through honest voices, creative campaigns and research that can’t be ignored.Every month, over 50,000 people turn to The Hidden 20% to feel safe, seen and to learn about brilliant brains.With your support, we can reach further, grow louder, and keep fighting for the 1 in 5 who deserve more.Join us at hidden20.org/donate.Become a monthly donor.Be part of our community where great minds think differently.Brought to you by charity The Hidden 20% #1203348______________Follow & subscribe…Website: www.hidden20.orgInstagram / TikTok / Youtube / X: @Hidden20charityBen Branson @seedlip_benMax Siegel @maxsiegel_Lori-Jade Siegel @midlifeinvintage If you'd like to support The Hidden 20%, you can buy a "green dot" badge at https://www.hidden20.org/thegreendot/p/badge. All proceeds go to the charity. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.