Autism, Aging, and Advocacy: The Role of Grandparents and Retirees in Lifelong Support with Alexandra J. Rogers, Ph.D.

Ep 114: Retirement doesn’t always mean slowing down. For some, it means stepping up to support a loved one with autism. In this episode, Ben and Curtis talk with Dr. Alexandra Rogers, a retired psychologist and autism advocate, about the unique role many grandparents and retirees play as caregivers. With warmth and deep experience, Dr. Rogers explores how to better understand autism from the perspective of the individual, how to balance love, advocacy, and boundaries, and how to thoughtfully plan for long-term care and housing. She also offers guidance on how caregivers can recognize when they need support for their own mental health and how to care for themselves while caring for others. Whether you're helping a grandchild, adult child, or extended family member, this conversation offers practical strategies and heartfelt encouragement for finding purpose and peace in a complex role. Chapters: How did Dr. Alexandra Rogers begin working with autism in her career? [04:21] What does autism look like in everyday life? [11:46] Why do retirees often become caregivers for family members with autism? [14:19] What are the emotional challenges of caregiving? [16:09] What should families know about group homes and other housing options? [20:15] How can caregivers advocate effectively? [26:52] How can grandparents support from a distance or without overstepping? [28:31] What are signs caregivers need mental health support? [32:49] What does Retirement Success look like for Dr. Alexandra Rogers? [36:24]