Autism Communication Strategies That Actually Work

If your autistic child isn’t communicating clearly yet, where do you actually start?In this episode, pediatric psychologist Dr. Mark Bowers breaks down what to do first when autism and communication challenges show up after a diagnosis. Whether your child is nonverbal, using scripts, struggling to express needs, or melting down when overwhelmed, this episode gives you a clear, practical starting point.You’ll learn why communication is more than talking, how behavior often is communication, and what actually helps kids express needs in real life—not just in therapy.We cover: The difference between speech and functional communication  Why meltdowns, shutdowns, and “behavior problems” are often communication breakdowns  How to identify your child’s current communication style  When and why to consider AAC (augmentative and alternative communication)  What to do when your child has words but can’t use them under stress  How to support echolalia and scripting instead of shutting it down  Practical ways to build communication at home without pressure  What good speech therapy should actually focus on If you’ve been told to “wait and see,” push speech, or fix behavior first, this episode will help you shift your approach.Because when communication improves, everything else gets easier.🎧 This is part of the “Now What?” autism series for parents navigating next steps after diagnosis.Let Us Know What You Think!Support the showBeneath the Behavior is an educational podcast for parents and caregivers of neurodivergent kids.The information shared is not therapy or a substitute for working with your own provider. Episodes are intended to offer understanding, context, and language—not individual advice.If you’re looking for ongoing support grounded in the same science-not-shame approach, check out the Neurodivergent Parenting Collective.