who greetings greetings welcome to another episode of truth to power. I am your host Tyraez Terrell McMight and tonight I want to talk about a tongueless black man. Damn why this is a threat to society and law rich of our people many of you are a threat has been a tongueless and things like that. This has been a episode and I'm making for a while I've been meaning to get to this episode for a while and now I can finally get to it and get some things out of my chest.
But first before I do I want to first thank everyone for supporting everything that I do. I just released a new book not too long ago I know it's just very hard to keep on me and what I'm doing but I just released a book titled the Grass and No of a Tissue account of the JFK assassination. I thought that would be a very interesting read and things of that nature. But also a lot of people are watching one of the twenty thirty they're watching the Lincoln fruit on different streaming platforms and I'm very excited about them very happy about that and I'm very proud of that.
Also the game is on different streaming platforms as well just my other shoulders my other on podcast it's more like the relationship social on my podcast and my media services and there's so much to come but I just get that out the way. I mean once upon a time and I when you say once upon a time but it was like a couple years back then my brother we went to the gym together off the on-time like this about every day and that's when I was like dude like why are these people around us like why are these people so I was like this and he was just saying like how no matter what certain people are somewhat parasitic and they have to get that mask on energy from somewhere like if they don't have it on their home then they must get it from somewhere and a lot of people are parasitic and a lot of people either whether they notice it or not like they certain energies are attracted to you and just nothing that you could do about that to some degree that's what he was telling me but I always been one of the mind like they can deeper than things of their nature and just you know like yeah I get that like that's that's cool and everything but it has to be something much deeper I think that for the most part when you're an autonomous right now for those who don't know what autonomous mean that means I don't your own I mean it's basically I don't your own thing and I notice this in a jump a lot like go to the gym a lot of different races of people will come by me and just like whereby I go like if I go from different machines and I'm bad for right now because I've often totally started to different people in my life and I just like I just don't get it cuz the or I give office not one of friendliness not one of I want to be a friend not one of I'm trying to sparkle some type of social interaction with people they just came in to get my workout in and you know I'm saying like basically go home like a weed and a vibe and that's cool and everything like that but I'm not trying to be nobody friend unless you know you find your family other than that I ain't trying to be nobody's friend but I've noticed that a lot of people it seems that when they see somebody that's a time is I'm more often than a they're not you know a time is black man then they prefer to try to either try to get some of that energy or they try to get next to it even at work like I don't know how many people have had this experience if you're a black man for sure I'm pretty sure like if you're a black man at work or man let's just say like you just work and do your job and you're not socially trying to be social you're trying to get the work do the best jobs you can possibly do then go home you are going to get mess with you are going to get people that come around hey what's her name what do you do here like you know even though you guys will be in the same office and things like that or they can have a vivid idea of what you do they still have to get close to you they still have to get next to you they still have to try to know you in some type of way and it's um it's aggravating it's very much so it's aggravating I think that a lot of people have a problem with a time is black man like a black man all to himself building and doing his own thing I think that a lot of people have a problem with that a lot of people have a problem with autonomous black men that that's not really trying to be socially interacting with them in that manner socially I don't want to say in depth because there'll be a wrong there'll be a wrong word I want to say compatible with other people and a lot of people trying to force those generations and their compatibility and this is not how it goes a lot of people just respect for you and this is what bothers me the most with the whole thing is that a lot of people think that they are entitled to your kindness a lot of people think that they are entitled to your friendship that they're entitled to the one day for me that you're entitled to in my opinion is your is my respect I'm going to give you respect unless you show up otherwise I shouldn't respect you but I will give you a respect you are entitled to human decency you are entitled to that I will give you that however you are not entitled to my space you are not entitled to why I'm as a person you are not entitled to my kindness these are things that you have to earn you have to earn my friendship you have to earn access to me and a lot of you there's scratching up your face or they're saying that they listen how I got to earn this I got to do this and these are people that have so let's blow expectations of themselves that they don't say boundaries are barriers around people in general how can anybody say that they have confidence themselves and they don't have boundaries and barriers that they set up against people did they set up against other humans like listen like this is my space get out of my space or listen this is a boundary of mind you have to earn access to me if you feel like that you could just gain access to me from whatever interaction that we may have then that's just foolish and for those who think I'm just you know just what's the indexing listen they help they have women they have been in my life that I care for they don't have that much access to me or they don't they haven't tried to earn access to me they have women in my life that I've dated that I have kept at a distance like they're certain things I just won't compromise on and they keep wondering why that's because they haven't earned access to me a lot of people are foolish a lot of people like hormones that impulses get the best of them and then they want somebody to come over to the space and they get violated in such a way that they start thinking to themselves like why is the person like that because you didn't put them through their changes you get put up the wing thing to earn everything if you're really that valuable then it should come with certain stipulations but if you tell a man or they're a man in general hey listen you should wait before you even have sex with a female you should wait up to six months dead type of discipline they don't understand the knives of certain pleasures certain people don't understand the type of discipline meeting a woman instantly given access to you is crazy meaning any person given access to you initially is crazy especially if they haven't earned it for the people that this in my life that I consider to be friends that I call and I check on and they call and check up on me there have been they went to a guy trust me they've been through some things and I tell you but one question keeps on popping up and I keep on asking them whenever they get tired or whenever they may seem like hey listen this is getting too much for me I don't know what one question always asking this and am I worth it and for those who have stayed they have said yes but also have you know this is another up they they're on my life in this school it's okay with me but everybody in the life and crew and family members you need to set boundaries nobody should just have access to you nobody should just gain access to you there should be a couple of tests and a lot of people do tests and all these are people that won't suffer from nothing always watch people like that people that try to negotiate your spaces go say to boundaries always watch off people like that man why you put me through all this why I got to go through all this because you haven't earned anything I can't give you everything on a simple battle otherwise you would think that I'm weak that's why and you wouldn't value it you won't value my space you won't value my time you wouldn't value all the young giving you you you were not valued at you wouldn't value me as a person but this isn't about the people that just said about truth do you how much do you value yourself as a person how much do you see yourself as couldn't that's how people time this is young girl but you know what heaven has a gate allegedly we don't know but the potential that they show heaven is a gate how much do you value yourself now just be gonna black people in general I just black name or time is black man I'm speaking to black people in general how much do you value yourself that's the question to yourself and proceed recursion and act accordingly I just go through the power half a good night