Back-to-School Hauls, Influencer Culture & the Pressure to Have More

Back-to-school season used to mean pencils, notebooks and maybe a new pair of shoes. Now, open TikTok or YouTube and you can find kids displaying hundreds, sometimes thousands, of dollars worth of clothes, makeup, skincare and accessories in elaborate “back-to-school hauls.” But this episode isn't really about one teenager with a pile of shopping bags, it's about the culture we've created around our kids. In this solo episode of Parents Uncharted, Sarah explores the growing intersection of childhood, consumerism and influencer culture, and how social media has transformed advertising from something that interrupts entertainment into the entertainment itself. Kids aren't simply being sold products. They're absorbing messages about what success looks like, what their bedrooms should look like, what they should wear, what they should own and, increasingly, what a “good life” is supposed to look like. At the same time children are being encouraged to constantly buy more, replace more and keep up with the next trend, they are also growing up amid climate change, extreme heat, wildfires and environmental instability. From fast fashion and textile waste to a culture that normalizes buying things we already own simply because a new version is trending, this episode asks whether the values being reinforced online are compatible with the future we say we want for our kids. Because underneath the hauls, affiliate links, TikTok trends and endless packages is a much bigger parenting question: what do we want our children to believe a good life looks like, and is the version we're modelling compatible with the world they're inheriting? Chapters (00:00) — When Back-to-School Became a Haul (02:15) — Wanting vs. Needing: What Are Kids Learning? (05:55) — Social Media Supercharged Consumerism (07:25) — When the Advertisement Becomes the Entertainment (10:35) — Materialism, Happiness & Well-Being (11:10) — Parents Are Part of This Culture Too (13:30) — The Environmental Cost of “More” (17:45) — What Parents Can Actually Do (18:30) — Teach Kids to Recognize the Sales Pitch (20:45) — Shop Your House Before Shopping the Store (22:55) — Look at Their Feed—and Yours (24:25) — Model What “Enough” Looks Like (26:00) — What Do We Want Kids to Value? (27:25) — Raising Kids for the World They're Inheriting Connect with Sarah Adams: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://momuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/mom.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@mom.uncharted⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://parentsuncharted.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/parents.uncharted/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@parents.uncharted Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices