Beating The Odds in Marriage | Dr. Lee Baucom | #51

On today's episode, Dr. Lee Baucom joins us, and we have a great discussion aboutintentionality and actively creating a stronger marriage connection both physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Join Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz in this journey on strengthening marriage connection, relationships, and personal values.Timestamps:0:00 – Introduction: Who is Lee Baucom2:30 – Number one concern for new couples5:12 – Shifts you need to make in the first year of marriage9:08 – Pause button marriage12:52 – Difference in how you communicate vs communication skills14:25 – The arc of disconnection16:14 – Three levels of connection18:58 – Intentionality is important22:14 – What can you do to reconnect?25:51 – Difference between marriage fail point and individual fail point28:30 – Husbands bootcamp31:36 – There is intentionality behind everything35:28 – Key component to a stronger marriage connection38:06 – Resources39:07 – TakeawaysAbout Lee Baucom:Dr. Lee Baucom is internationally known for his methods and approaches to saving marriages. For three decades, Lee has been helping people around the world save, restore, and create the marriage they deserve and desire. He's the author of the book, “How to save your marriage in three simple steps”, in addition to six other books, and he's the creator of the highly effective internet Marriage program. Save the marriage. Lee is also the host of two popular podcast Thrive nation and save the marriage.Insights:Dave: Lack of attention leads to loss of connection. Physical, emotional, and spiritualconnection all have an impact on your partner, what will you do to strengthen those areas?Liz: The key of the “We” and having each other’s backs, we all want someone to get us and know us. You are in this together.Lee: Remember the pause button, did you hit pause and what is it going to take to un-pause it. Get more intentional about connecting from a physical, spiritual, and emotional level. Take action.Invites:   -    Shift from “you and me” to “we”. Remember that you are a team, and it is important to acknowledge those struggles as a team.   -    Mature relationships are not without the feelings of romance and passion but include communications and connection   -    Husband bootcamp is a video bootcamp structured over 30 days to get into shape and address the wounds that men carry around with them that can get in the way ofrelationshipsLee Baucom links:https://savethemarriage.com/https://savethemarriage.com/podcasthttps://savethemarriage.com/books Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways:Strongermarriage.orgpodcast.strongermarriage.orgFacebook: StrongerMarriage.orgInstagram: @strongermarriagelifeTikTok: @strongermarriagelifeDr. Dave Schramm:https://drdaveschramm.comhttps://drdavespeaks.comFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/DHappy Hacks: 101 Science-Backed Ways to Boost Happiness, Reduce Stress, and Build a More Meaningful Life.Available now starting at 99¢ on Amazon and Dave's Book StoreWritten by Dr. Dave Schramm, this practical and uplifting new book offers simple, research-based strategies to help you build greater happiness, strengthen resilience, reduceThe opinions, findings, conclusions, and recommendations expressed in this podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the Utah Marriage Commission.Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways: Strongermarriage.org  Podcast.stongermarriage.orgYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@StrongerMarriageLifeTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@strongermarriagelifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/strongermarriage/Facebook Marriage Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/770019130329579Dr. Dave Schramm: http://drdaveschramm.comhttp://drdavespeaks.com Dr. Liz Hale: http://www.drlizhale.com/