Befriend Those Who Fail, and Other Rules for a Life of Adventure

Who you surround yourself with defines the person you become. This discussion starts with a powerful piece of advice: "Befriend those who attempt adventures, take risks, fail, get hurt, and still take more risks."We explore why the most valuable friends aren't those who avoid failure, but those who embrace it as part of the process—people who celebrate a "nice try" more than a safe victory. Drawing on experiences from ultramarathons and polar expeditions, the author reflects on a shared value among these resilient individuals: they don't cling to Plan A.Discover the philosophy of the "pivot"—gracefully switching to Plan B, C, or D when things go wrong, just as the world's most successful companies like Apple and Microsoft have always done. It’s a compelling look at how choosing your friends is really about choosing your future, and how surrounding yourself with people who aren't afraid to get hurt is the key to keeping your own adventurous spirit alive.