Being a "Good Guy" Isn't Enough for a Safe Marriage (And It's Affecting Your Marriage)

A lot of men think their marriage is safe because they’re a “good guy.”They don’t cheat. They don’t yell. They don’t hit her.So why doesn’t she want sex?In this episode, we’re breaking down what a safe marriage actually means—and why the absence of harm is not the same thing as the presence of safety.Because if a woman doesn’t feel emotionally, relationally, and sexually safe, her desire isn’t going to show up… no matter how “good” her husband is.We’ll talk about:Why safety directly impacts desireSigns a marriage might not feel as safe as it looksAnd how to start creating an environment where intimacy can actually thriveIf you’ve ever wondered why the spark feels gone—or why sex feels like a struggle—this episode will help you understand what’s really going on beneath the surface.Because you don’t fix desire by forcing it.You build a marriage where desire feels safe to exist.And as always… go have good sex.Resources referenced in this episode:Marital Coercion ft Nat LaJune31 Days of IntimacySmall Moments of ConnectionSex Drive Divide MasterclassTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.