Being a strong man during and/or after your divorce - Elliott Katz || Divorce Recovery Men Over 40 Podcast 003 || David M. Webb

How can a man be strong during and/or after a divorce?  Elliott Katz’s theories dive into that reality.  He says the most important part of recovering from a divorce is to look at yourself and realize what you need to learn from it. Blaming the other person won’t get you down the healing path you need to be on. How should you have been different?  Getting back to the basics of the men being hunters and gatherers works on this premise.  Elliott says men need to take charge more and make more decisions and with themselves.   Elliot is a retired speechwriter and author from Toronto. After going through a divorce, he embarked on a journey to learn what it means to be a man in a relationship. He discovered that many men today lack the qualities that women desire, such as leadership, decision-making, and taking responsibility. Elliot has written two books, "Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants" and "How to Get Your Man to Wear the Pants...So You Don't Have To," to educate men and women on how to have successful relationships. Believing that men need to step forward and show their share of leadership in order to have successful relationships Elliot also discusses the importance of making decisions and planning dates, as well as the need for men to communicate in a calm and positive manner. Elliot encourages men to work on themselves before getting back into the dating scene and to set boundaries in relationships. Discussions of: What women really want A man with a plan Mother's helper The word 'no' This is what I did wrong and this is what I will do next time If it is wrong, it is wrong Let me tell you what I’ve learned no what happened Forgive yourself most importantly We’re over 40 and we don’t need a project Courage to speak up New book: Dating With Elliott Think before you speak Everyone wants to be valued She insulted my car! Elliott hits some interesting points.  See what points may apply to you and your divorce recovery journey.  Stay strong and keep your eye on the prize of a successful divorce recovery - enjoying and living in a new positive reality.   Elliott's website and to check out his books  Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.