Being Boy Crazy & Campus Crushes

Oh it’s hard out here girls. We are just looking for the one that will be able to meet our standards, the one who will take that step forward and talk to us, the  one who will even just know our name at this point….In my head I’ve dated close to 50 people, and broken up with them as well, and they have no clue that this ever even happened. In today’s episode I deep dive into all my campus crushes I’ve had so far at university, what I learnt from them, and what I didn’t learn from them!The most important takeaway from today’s episode is…it’s not just you! There are countless of us girls out here forming connections and crushes and attachments to randoms we see at school or at college or on the street or whatever. IT’S NORMAL! IT’S NATURAL! We just want connection - it’s what we’re hardwired to do as humans. REMEMBER: A) don’t punish yourself for it, it’s normal B) TELL SOMEONE! It’s makes it easier/a funny thing rather than so serious C) remind yourself what you are looking for & work on your sense of self instead (if possible, requires a lot of maturity) All my love out there to you guys, it’s hard out here. Thanks for listening and see you in the next episode! XX Lydia‘Children of Divorce’ is available wherever you get your podcasts, including Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTubeFind me on TikTok & Instagram under @childrenofdivorcepod and @lydianathenson