Being Hot Isn't Cool. Sexuality and Sexual Shame (with Sam Oh aka GAY VIRGIN)

Sam Oh doesn't think being hot is relatable. He grew up a devout Christian, which made being gay complicated. Now he sings about 4skin. WARNING: this episode discusses gay, sex, and gay sex. If neither are your jam, maybe skip it. If they ARE.... wait, say more. CHAPTERS:(0:00) intro(1:15) growing up super religious(8:00) unhealthy relationship with career(10:50) Being normal and cool is OUT(13:00) the gay world... sucks(16:00) bad grindr experiences(18:00) men are gross (20:00) cruising? pressure to have s*x(22:00) gay s*x so confusing(26:00) poop fear(29:00) a song about 4SKIN. why?(32:00) the power of an alter ego