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Mar 12, 2020 1 hr 7 min

BEING PATIENT v. BEING STUCK

from TRUTH 2 POWER Hosted by Tyris McKnight

In this episode of Truth 2 Power I was joined by Snicks and Mac Papers. We briefly discussed the Coronavirus in NOLA, then we discussed the difference in being patient v being stuck in both our professional and romantic relationships. We spoke Truth 2 Power!

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Hello? Yes, yes, yes, next. Hey. Okay, so we're here.

We are here now. Okay. Hello? Yep.

Oh, okay. I'm going to take a seat on my arm again. I'll give you back. I'll promise you.

So first things first. How are you doing? I'm doing good. How are you about to?

I can't complain. I'm trying to stay clear to Corona. Oh, yes. People are losing their minds.

They're losing their minds. I'm going to tell you all something. Yeah, it's lying to y'all about New Orleans. I work.

I work at Oxford. And it's reading notes. All the people that they say in half around them, they have new mohio and they're trying to treat them as if they got Corona. So be careful with the news out there and what they're saying.

So you're saying we don't have Corona situation. We have a lot of the mohio situations. Yeah, we don't have any confirmed Corona situations. They're presuming that they have Corona.

Okay, because of because of the mohio systems. Sometimes they're presuming but they're nobody can find the hell but Corona. Yeah. So everybody tonight lose a god damn mind.

All right. Moving quite moving along. Today we're going to talk about people. Somebody go this is a background.

It's something. Hello? Yeah. That's playing with egos.

Okay. Okay. So, so we, um, so the topic today is being stuck being patient versus being stuck. Now, we're going to spend a certain amount of time on one topic.

Then we're going to switch on to the next one. But the first one I want to tackle first was professional. How do you know that you're being stuck that you're being how do you know going to be patient at a job rather than you being stuck in a position for a long time? And what I mean by that is when you're not moving up or making more paid than you know when you started when you use exercise patients versus realizing that you're being stuck you need to be wrong.

Snakes take that from me. Well, being stuck sometimes it just depends on what is stuck because some people are content with being where they are. They're not worried about advancements or being able to move up at a job. But, um, being stuck is basically just being like content.

Um, you know, being concerned with the situation. But you also have the thing where you see that, okay, this is what I'm going to be able to be. I see there's no room for improvement. Meaning there's no way to elevate in the job.

There's no other positions that become available. And then you stay. But then there's the thing where you can see that there's something that may be able you know, get, but it's just going to take time in patients. Like at certain jobs, people don't leave even after their retirement time for whatever reason or another.

And then you have these positions that they're holding on to that sometimes leave you in a spot where you don't know if you're stuck or you just waiting to see what's going to happen from there. Yes. That's your people come to make some money. Absolutely.

What about your make papers? How you feel about it? Hold on, I got a, I got a dress up situation what's going on. Y'all hating on the old people.

Okay. Okay. It's like that's how you know the old people. You know, y'all gonna get old one there.

No, no, no. And I'm gonna go home and be old. No man. No man.

People will stop working. And they scared of that. I mean, no, I'm gonna be able to enjoy my retirement. I don't want to work until I die.

Hey, you saying that not until you look around and all your friends at work. You go on vacation and you call it back at work talk about what y'all doing. Well, that seems so lonely. What's up for?

Room with Jesus. You know everybody else outside your job, big and big. Somebody let me hold something. Let me hold a dollar.

I need something. People have the job. They got money. You know, I don't know what you want to do.

People have the job. I'll be begging you for shit. Okay. Not me.

I'm going with that. Oh, of course you do. All right. What the question is?

The question is when you know the when you want to be patient at the job, meaning you're really not making any movements. Meaning you're not getting any different type of salary or any different type of position to move forward in the job. When you're being when you just stuck, when you just stuck, when do you exercise patients versus realizing that you're being stuck and that you need to move on? Well, me personally, I'm a different type of individual.

So, uh, no, uh, you know, um, no job, no reason, anything going to improve the quality of my life. So therefore I ain't looking for no advancement. So if, uh, what, uh, Snicks was saying about people are content, I'm one of them people. Wow, you can think.

Oh, my supervisor once I moved up. And, um, when he moved up, they basically get like 2500 years. And, um, you can hear me? Yeah.

Okay. I was coming across the bridge and stuff. So he made like an extra what 2500 a year? Yeah.

I get, you know, that 2500 in two weeks and I ain't got to wait a whole year. So they can't improve the quality of my life with them, you know, with them, uh, moving up or whatever you want to call it. I'm good. I do my five to two and I'm going.

I 100,000 a year. 100,000 more years. You're getting out of the place with the quality of your life? No, it won't.

No, it will not. I'm confused. It will not. Why not?

That 100,000 dollars is going to take away, you know, my other hustles and my dreams and stuff. I ain't got to do nothing for I'm a word for them. 100,000. I bet you.

They ain't just going to get it to me. Right. On, on Depot right now, they gave me the 35,000 and I'm enjoying it. Okay.

So that's what I'm saying. I get it. That's what I'm saying about that. All right.

How do I feel about that? I feel like why would that be sufficient when you're able to make more? Does work scare people? Because this is not the first time I've heard someone say this.

Well, I don't know what they was talking about, but I make more than a still manager. So I'd have been 100,000 over 100,000 over and over again. So I ain't. Okay.

So my, my, maybe my question, my question, you should be this. If you was offered another job, another job, another place, any office, you 100,000 dollars. Would you take the job or would you stay where you are? Sam, when I'm, when I'm at, I'm good.

This job leaves me a bunch of room to do a whole bunch of other stuff. We wasn't, we wasn't made to keep on going and working and then go home and all that. We, we not made for that. We need to have some pass and then come.

And only when you get that pass and then come is that extra money that you can put to the side. And um, so you don't feel like you're going to do that with 100,000 hours a year? I didn't have job money. My bill's increased with that job money.

Every time. So you're saying more money, more problems. Yeah. More money, more bills.

Yeah. You know, when you're making a 100,000 hours from a job, you know what I mean? You know, the bank offices, they, they're willing to get you that that 500,000 dollars. Take the 500,000 dollars.

That's what, that's what a discipline comes in. And that's what, what I'm saying when I say when some people are afraid of, uh, remember we talked about that time. It's about people being afraid of more money. I think that's one of those situations.

Yeah. But I'll take, I'll take, I'll take a minute like that. I'm just, I'm just speaking general. I'm just speaking in general.

I just, I'm not never a hundred thousand dollars going to come with some work. And I know this for a fact. So I, I'm enjoying my life. 35,000.

Then I probably, I don't even see none of that. Cause uh, most of my check going to stock in insurance and stuff like that. I'm a, I'm just a different individual when it comes down to jobs and stuff about it. I know what I didn't did without a job.

I mean, without job money. So I'm not even okay. So that's what it is. It's next.

You just say that people are afraid of, more money or people are afraid of like, um, jobs or stuff like that. Or people afraid to do what make papers going, like papers got his own business doing. Don't go without selling his job. Or people are willing to do that.

Or people are afraid of that. Okay. So same way he explains to me and I'm sure that the people that's listening and make sense seem like he only has this $35,000 job. Okay.

So now I can understand what you're saying. I can do my part to make what I'm going to make and still do that. You know, all my other stuff, all my other businesses and, you know, do stocks and insurance. See, that's why I didn't know because I was confused.

I've never heard of anything. Hey, I'm especially with $35,000. You know, $35,000. I'm just going home.

So you must admit that. I do that. Right. I say that make more than a still man.

Absolutely. That's now I understand. So there's just a whole other situation. Yeah.

You got it. So do you think, so do you think, so do you think, so do you think people are afraid of the way he's doing? He's saying, Hey, I'll make 35,000. And I really don't need this job just to play insurance and you know, that's the purpose is, but you know, good on all I'm so sufficient.

All the people that scared me. Oh, no, no, I'm saying this because this is something I've been speaking about since the last couple of like maybe a couple of weeks now, because we were having the shake up in our office and I don't know which direction is going to be in favor of me or not. But I'm not going to, I don't know if I'm going to say scared. It's just that I want it to work.

So I can have the same feeling that he has. I'm not, I'm putting it. I'm going to be putting in the work to make that happen. So I'm not going to say I'm scared so much, but I'm definitely, I'm hoping for it that it works out in my favor because I don't know what's going to happen within the job in the next couple of weeks.

You know, for me, that's scarier than taking a leap of faith and going out on your own. For me, having your destiny as somebody is saying, I'm not being fired. So it's next, I'm about to give you the best of, I'm about to be the best of and I want you to listen to this and I want to receive and understand it. Because I've been on lately, I've been on the journey to become a better person just in general in overall.

And some things have opened my eyes open to certain stuff. So I know you probably heard the first way to fix a problem is admitting it, right? Okay. And you notice how you refuse to say that you're scared?

Absolutely. So first you got to get over that and just know it is what it is. I'm scared. I'm terrified of whatever it is.

And then you can work on not being scared, but as long as you keep on saying, I'm not really scared. I'm doing, you know, it just, you're sugar coating it. But the only way to tackle that problem is to get to it. And what made me take the leap of faith is just for one, getting a bunch of money.

Like I have no thoughts of losing no money period. Like I know I can get, like I know I can get $52,000 a year at any time. So just those thoughts, I'm not scared to go in no type of arena. I'm not scared to go try to flip no house.

I'm not scared to go do any of those things. So first what you have to do is keep a bag coming beside your job. Absolutely. Okay.

Absolutely. Do you have any of that? Do you have any of that going on? Yes, I do.

Or are you all you live and check the check? No, I actually have something going on. What I feel like I have three kids and I need something going on for each kid plus me. So I'm still having that go yet.

You might be moving a little too fast. You think? Just up take time. Just like it takes time for you, for the next kid and the next kid and the next kid.

And I'm and unless you got triplets, they all not the same age. So yeah, so therefore, you know, whatever is, you know, put in it to manifest. And there's a overnight success that we got this image and our head of overnight success. They don't work like that.

They do not work like that. And I'm like, people look at me and think of some overnight stuff because it looked like that. But I've been working on this before I even knew I was working on it. And you got to do it.

Don't just scrub. That's a lot. I don't care about it. So like people go, here, I'm not doing this.

We do. I just have a thing. I don't like to go. I need to have a lot of stuff like that.

Make you kind of break it up a little bit. You hear me? Okay. I'm just kind of going in and out like it underwater.

Going around. Time to talk. But yeah, what I got from you, and I understand what you were saying, like, you can't first stop, you got to be able to take the leap of faith and believe in yourself and stick with it because he's going down to the right side. You got to be able to take the leap of faith from one guy from a container to believe in a plane and believe in a script that you wrote for yourself.

You can't be down yourself because it really does take confidence to keep on moving on and to keep on going even when things are going well. Sometimes things, I mean, when she's planning stuff, it won't be going well. Even if you plan on how to do it, people say if you don't have a plan, you fail. You fail to plan.

You plan to fail. But sometimes that plan is going to use some curve as it is not going to be exactly how you wanted to go. But you got to make those proper adjustments and just believe in yourself and understand to make a right decision. And always, it's never afraid to be aggressive and be assertive in any situation.

Because I'm really learning this, but throughout the process of making this, when I made this documentary, that was something that I need to be aggressive and be assertive on and not give up on and stick to the script. And next week, I passed, we got some good news. I'm excited. I'm going to tell another.

Wait, tell me. Tell me. Tell me. Tell me.

Tell me. Tell me. I definitely understand. Go ahead.

You know, the thing that you're saying about being content, well, stuck and I don't think, I think we need, you know, sometimes we're just too concerned with some things and I know I've seen it happen. I've seen people work for the same amount of money for 25 years. And that same amount of money ain't the best money, but has been offered. You know, more money, but just don't want to do work.

So I just don't, it just depends on how you view it for yourself as being stuck or, you know, just being content where, what you should do. So about to transition a little bit and talk about relationships. When do you know? When do you, when is it okay to be patient in a relationship rather than being stuck?

Because I want to talk, I want to talk to make papers about this because we had a conversation. I'll offer this podcast where I'll tell him about a situation I was in. Man, you're blocking your blessings. That could have been a one for you right now.

And I was like, now I don't think so. He was like, he was like, man, you got to be patient. Because you got to be able to squeeze that food. I think what was the, oh, I don't know, but I changed my mind.

Okay, talk to, okay, talk about it. Where does it okay to be patient in a relationship versus, say, bro, I know more than being patient stuff. Wait, what are those I'm going to get with each? Say, bro, I told that I'm working on being a better person.

There's a lot of stuff that out of my eyes that I open up to. And that's one of them. And I mean, like first off, like just with, if you, all that other stuff and being patient, like you, like if you don't have. I can't hear.

You're breaking up, bro. You sound like you're trying to get over here. Yeah. Thank you.

Hello? Mate, mate. Mate, how are you now? Tell them about difficulties.

Mate, baby, six. Hello. My dad. Mate, what's your name?

Hello? You gave it? Oh, you got it? Okay.

Um, they got a basic relationship, right? And I'm starting to understand like the basis, and the basis, and I follow Adam, starting to understand like why females are frustrated and have all this aggression and don't want a lot of men to lead and be in a position that they are in, because they are in a lot of females are being in a role, a unnatural role as being elite. So they fuck. Oh, I need to look on back because it was getting good.

Like starting to mention that more thing, like if you play your position as hell in the lead, they're going to get a line regardless. And I'm using the word get in line, but don't put on negative connotations on it. Because you know, a lot of times when you add negative connotations on a thing, it's like rejected. But what I mean, get in line is like getting your position and play your position.

Um, it's like I'm thinking I'm really feeling like that's why a lot of females is frustrated. And if a female don't allow you to lead, you're gonna let that shit go. And she don't trust in you. And that's when I'm talking about the basics.

That's the basics that she don't trust you to lead. Where we going at it's nothing now. So, yeah, I finished, but I'm still preaching. Okay.

Keep on preaching. Calm down. Calm down. Like just like, and like the things I just, you know, recently learned, Brad is like the females are frustrated because they have to do the job of a male.

And it's unnatural. And by being unnatural. And they fit that. And that's why the world getting fulfilled up with a whole bunch of excuse my language, bitch ass, inwards.

Because if the feet, no, I'm not the reason for it. We not eat. We not. We not.

I'm not going to blame them. But the thing is if if you if it's, I mean, you heard a video about the booty, all right. You remember when he says somebody go up some booty? If the female keep on taking the the lead, the man going automatically going to submission.

And he is in the wrong position. And a female can do anything. They can do anything. So it's it can be done, but it's an unnatural position.

So that's where the frustration comes in that. You know what I mean? But drop some Jews up there. Wait, wait, wait, wait, what you think about that?

So when I think about it, I don't think that the female should there's no such thing as somebody allowing you to lead either you're a leader or you're not. Now, once you step into relationship situation, you got to establish the leadership position, right? How do you establish the leadership position to knowledge expertise and just also having those qualities and giving us some jewels that you would call it or not. She doesn't have teaching or something that she doesn't know, something that would improve something that would improve your life, right?

So so you don't you don't ask the female to allow you to leave or you don't look for her to allow you to leave when you're doing those issues things. That would have meant by falling in life. How ever. Yeah, however, some females are able to see those issues.

Which wasn't them to become frustrated and they have relationships with bit to it. Inwards. Hey, we're watching. I say, I heard how ever it is.

Oh, yeah, I said, I said something must have unable to identify those leadership qualities, which forces them to become frustrated. Say, bro, first off, if she unable to, what you just said, if she unable to identify those qualities, they not deal. I'm telling you, this is the reason why I going to say it's not there. It's not there for them.

That's why I was saying don't waste your time. Keep it moving. If she can't see it, you keep it moving. No, anywhere I didn't went in a room, bro, I command the room.

Even with children, children respect me off the dump. They know when a man is in the building. What type of office back there? And this ain't no, no, no, no package stuff or whatever you did.

I assume I rule. I know what I know what it is. All right, next. Next.

Is your turn? My first question would be first before I even get into what I need to see. Make have you ever been rejected on that? What?

What? Well, you felt like somebody didn't understand. Your quality that you present as a man, that that person didn't understand that she was a leader in a relationship. Did you ever have any issues?

First off, we're going to go into some amitness. I ain't never been a man. It's a hard pill to swallow, but I ain't never been a man. I was out here doing things that I wasn't supposed to be doing, you know what I'm saying?

So I ain't even going to be in the title of being an actual real man, in a relationship that. So like, certain stuff that we think is cool to do is not cool to do. So, why? I respect that.

I respect that for you, but for me, when y'all say stuff like, oh, she's supposed to automate it, let you leave, I think that sometimes I have to understand that, you know, females have been scorned in life. They have been dealing with bish-ass in words, like y'all say. So you can't come, expect a kind of relationship in automatically gain that leadership role. Sometimes you have to put in the work, especially if you really like that person.

Maybe you need to show her and does not expect, you know, that she's going to let me. You know, sometimes you have to put some things in some place for what? I'm sorry. What?

What? Snicks. Snicks. Snicks.

Snicks. I'm about to get ready to tell you something. And I want to talk about it. Go ahead.

Go ahead. I'm about to get ready to tell you something. Yeah, probably that. All right.

All right. Snicks. Snicks. Okay.

First off, what they got to do with us? Another thing is, what do you want to pay? Oh. We don't have time to hear this shit.

Once you're trying to get to it, let's up to you. Hold up, hold up, hold up. Hold up, hold up. Hold up, hold up.

Let me. Hold up, hold up. Hold up. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Let me finish. Let me tell you something. Go ahead. Let me finish.

Let me finish. Let me finish. The point of a relationship is to be happy before you get into one. Once you're happy, you can share happiness with another person.

Therefore, you won't be exploring the relationship in any type of way. Anytime you look at a person, to fix something in your past that you have not yet to deal with, then that's a role. Okay. So do you feel like that you are the perfect person for a relationship?

Do you feel like you have no past? No, no, no. Do you feel like you have nothing to do with your past? That you feel like you would have to deal with.

So here from now, because I'm not the perfect person in a relationship because we all have flaws. But I'm telling you is that if you are still looking at somebody new and then somebody from your past, then that's something to deal with on your own. It may not. Hold up.

Hold up. Hold up. Hold up. Hold up.

Hold up. Hold up. Hold up. Hold up.

Hold up. Hold up. It could be something that is from an uncle, a cousin, a nephew, a grand father, anything. But I don't think that no one should come into any type of relationship, whether it's a friendship or anything, thinking that they're this perfect person for that situation.

And everything is going to be just immaculate in the beginning. You're getting to know somebody. You're getting to understand somebody. You got to understand somebody.

I'm not allowed. I don't even let my boss leave. I don't know what you want. Because sometimes she don't know what she's talking about.

He don't know what he's talking about. You have to allow people to learn. Hold up. To learn.

Hold down. Hey, Cyrus. You know you did that, right? Hold down, say.

Did that. Hold down, say. What you just did? You put in that move.

Because of the things you're saying and how you presented it. Why? OK, so what did I say exactly? What did you know?

What did you know? I said I was perfect. I did. I did.

I said what I said was they said to you to fix and work on the show. Make sure to check this out. Check this out. That is perfect.

Young tires. That is perfect. What's up? People don't receive the blame game well.

So when you want to talk about you got to come into the relationship fixed already. It was awesome. Like it's your fault. You need to fix that first.

Then you come over here. So she going to reject that automatically. But what I would say is what I would say is I understand what you're saying, Snicks. But the thing is when it happened, you're going to all that shit you're talking about.

I can't let him lead and all that shit. That shit. No, hold on, hold on, hold on. I'm talking about you did say that you're not going to let nobody lead off the dump and all that stuff.

Yeah, I understand that. All that when it's the right person. All that stuff you were talking. That shit going to go out the window.

You ain't even going to do what happened. But we're talking about the people that you have to question. Hey, you remember when I started off? That ain't the one.

Throw them away. Damn ready. Straight up and down. Ain't all you're saying free with it.

True. But I don't think that everything should be given immediately. Hey, I promise you. Nobody's saying that.

I promise you. Nobody's saying that. So make papers. So make papers.

Yeah. I didn't know you following. Hey, here is now. Ain't that something?

That's crazy. But let's sort of be extra something. So what you mean trust? What first off, all right, first off, you're going to wind up being friends in the beginning.

So all that other stuff like the trust and all that shit, you're going to be then built that with the friendship already. So when you get into the relationship portion, it should be already there. So see, that's what I'm talking about right there. That's absolutely what I'm saying.

I always think you should be friends before you even much try to get it. Hey, all these Jews that people have been dropping that we've been ignoring the shit out of forever. That shit is real. And it has to be consistent.

I'm telling you, all that bit chances that you beat that be happening. Bit chances don't just happen. It's been happening. But the red flags look like six flags.

Yeah. Yeah. So that's something that I'm going to do. Because I'm kind of, because I'm on a direct side too, but you say you got to be friends first.

Also use it as you say that too. But I can't. Yes. Can you be friends with somebody who wants to be?

Can you be friends with somebody who wants to be? How? Say, bro. Are you really doing my friend?

I want to be with my friend. I don't want to be with somebody that we decided that I met you today. I met you and then we tomorrow week together. Like that don't even sound right.

Say, bro, the friendship is just a trial. Okay. I got my trial with Tyler and I'm in 365 days. Okay.

Feel me? Yeah. I say, bro, stop being lazy. Get shoulders.

Then you get kicked. Hold up after the trial. You get shoulders at 10, 99, 10, 9, 9, 9, and that's when you decide to stay on your side. Bingo.

Oh, that was some Jews right there. That was some Jews right there. The friendship is the trial. The friendship is the trial.

Now if I'm going to pay my 12, 99, 9, 9, 9, 10. First up is the trial. It was definitely. So what the term is?

So what's the term? I'm trying to let you lead. Like I'm telling you, like I was presenting to snakes. If like that trial is going to show.

Like even the like when I said all that what she was talking about, about I can't trust in the lead and all that stuff. All that shit is going to go out the window. So basically if you pay attention to all that type of stuff, the real basics, everything else going for all that line. I promise you.

This is like these is facts. But we we friends with shit and we ignore the basics. You know what I mean? She look good, but she got a bad attitude, but we're going to be cool with the attitude.

Like no, you got to let it. You can't fix that. You can't fix it. When it's for you, she going to automatically allow like it's going to happen naturally.

It ain't going to be on the man and you the woman. It ain't going to be another that she's going to happen naturally. She going to even if she just your friend, she's going to be calling you all the time, asking you for your asking, asking you questions about different stuff. Actually, she going to value your opinion on everything.

Value your opinion on should I use the Jiffy peanut butter or the other peanut butter? Or should I use some new teller? It's going to get that serious. So that's how you know when somebody is allowing you to leave.

And that's why I say it about my whole captain and co-captain theory. I'm good with co-captain. But you have to be able to be picked up. Well, guess what?

Guess what? No. Very good. What is wrong with being a co-captain?

What is wrong with being a co-captain? Hey, hey. What else are co-captain? I don't understand what is wrong with me.

Young Tires. Young Tires. Young Tires. Is this what you have to talk about?

Young Tires. You need to play your position. You need to play your position and let her call whatever she won't call. Whatever she won't call it.

What is wrong with it? I feel like Tires don't even want to partner. He just wants them out of the yes man or in man. He decides to do something.

Because there's nothing wrong with having a co-captain. Hey. Hey, hey. Hey, hey.

Tires. She can call it whatever it is. It's still going to be the same thing. And they're dick.

So I don't even know why you're going back and forth. You know what I mean? Yeah, that's true. That's true.

But I think the business is going to be very good. That's what you're presenting you. You want to find a rule over. Absolutely.

How? Let's not. Let's not. Let's not.

We don't think that the people that you take don't receive it. Exactly. In your in your mind. No, absolutely.

Receive it. Receive it. Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen. Listen to me.

Receive it. Exactly. I told it to. I'm giving it to you.

I'm making it plain. And I understand why people want to think that stuff and deeper than what I'm saying. My question is if people are in this need because then that's too different. Is it people or is it just me?

See, I don't I don't love these people because because for some people for some people I get people say I got a great delivery. Other people don't like my delivery. But the thing is this I've given it to you. Plain is not something deeper behind it.

It's like when I say people need to be people need to go fix the work on themselves if they got some damage done to them in a pain before they enter in something new. Now that makes sense. Now but you took it as. You said you got to be absolutely.

No, but that's what you said. That's what you said. That's what you said. And if you want to say it.

You said you said you said perfect. But you thought you did. You thought you did. But my question I just gave it to you.

But my question is what my question. But my question goes back to me. I didn't give it to you. It's just me taking it like this or other people also because then that's the difference.

That's a difference situation. Yeah. And I'm telling you the jury is split because there's some people that say, hey, you got a great delivery man. Keep that delivery what you got going on because you're calm.

You know you're knowledgeable and everything else. And then there are some people that don't like the way how the live are certain things. So I can't I can't change on my delivery because I've given it to you as calm as I possibly can. You know, and I'm saying I'm saying stuff in a rational manner.

I'm not saying what you're saying. Whatever you're hearing and how you're taking it, that's something deep within you. It's nothing that's nothing because I'm here myself from the outside from inside out. Okay, so.

You can hear me from the outside in. If that makes sense, if that makes sense at all. Because I'm going, hey, you know what? You need to work on yourself before you get to something new.

And you're going, oh, oh, I can accept that. But I can accept that. You said it. What we were just discussing.

You was like no, like, no, like you was just rejecting the whole scenario. Like what is it? I want you to play out the perfect relationship. Okay, why do you think six?

Six. Six. Six. Before I do that, six.

I want to ask you something before I play out this perfect relationship. Six. Let me ask something. Why?

What is a co-captain? Why do you want to be the co-captain? Because the captain cannot fly the way. It's five or eight days for a middle leader.

The plane cannot be flown without the co-captain. Okay. What is wrong? What is wrong with that scenario?

What I'm asking is why, what I'm asking you is why, do you want to be a co-captain? When it's very clear that a captain has more experience. And everything is why you say you can be the captain. The captain.

That's the captain. Just as much as knowledge. What is the co-captain? The person that's there for the captain, when the captain can't do certain things on the plane.

He is the person in the backup. What is wrong with that scenario? So do you think that the co-captain is not needed? Do you feel like there's no need for the co-captain?

When there's a captain? What's it? as in a relationship between men and women, you always want a woman that would be able to fly the plane when you go down or when you're unable to physically or even sometimes mentally somebody to hold you up. But you don't need somebody that's what they call quote unquote, domineering.

And that wants to think that there's gonna be some type of 50-50 then going on. If you trust my leadership and you should understand I'm doing what's best for us and it's your leadership. And when we're in this relationship, I'm not gonna try to exploit it and I'm gonna trust that you don't try to exploit it as well. You understand?

For me, the perfect relationship would be somebody or two people serving happiness with each other without exploiting a relationship. You can send in the bill, send goals and meet goals. Send in goals and meeting goals. For me, that would be the perfect relationship.

So you can do it all by yourself? Yeah. No, you're biking it out. I can't use it.

Thanks. You can hear me? Oh, I'm sorry. I got you good.

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