Being single is a stroll, relationships are a trek (E13)

So many of us nowadays living life as single people, yet so many of us also looking to be in a relationship. Is this a problem? Not if you understand that being single is very much a state of mind - and that singledom can be a very easy and relaxed place to be. By contrast, relationships are challenging and much more demanding on us. This podcast explores the final chapter of The Relationship Manifesto, in it Stephen explains that many people actually like being single, they just don't like not being in a relationship. This is a real paradox. So we have to come up with new ways of being in a relationship, recognise what sort of relationship we actually want, the sacrifices we are prepared to make, and, most important, what our level of 'relationship motivation' actually is. Do this and we can move from the easy stroll of a single lifestyle into the trek of a relationship without much difficulty. ================ If you like this episode then you might also like : "An Alternative Relationship Manifesto" is here to guide you on a journey of self-discovery and relationship exploration. Written in an informal narrative style, this book uses conversational language, slang, and figures of speech to make the topic of alternative relationships accessible and engaging." https://a.co/d/4Brkl2m ================