Being the Oldest Daughter is a Life Sentence with No Paro...

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Being the oldest daughter is not just a role—it’s a lifelong sentence, with chronic sacrifice and no parole. In this episode of I Love You, But BFFR, India is joined by Sade—a first-gen Ghanaian-American immigrant, angel investor, wife, girl mom, and certified eldest daughter.We get into:💋The invisible labor and thankless labor of eldest daughters💋Survival mode vs. thriving—how to know if you’re still secretly in survival mode💋How childhood adultification shows up in friendships, love, and your career💋Learning how to put yourself first without guilt💋How to feed the inner child in you while still being a responsible adult💋Why Kanye should’ve stopped at Donda, but Rihanna got it right Join us to unpack the unspoken burdens of the oldest sibling, survival mode, and what it really takes to leave survival mode.Follow @ilybutpodcast on Instagram and TikTok for more.

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This episode was published on July 2, 2025.

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Being the oldest daughter is not just a role—it’s a lifelong sentence, with chronic sacrifice and no parole. In this episode of I Love You, But BFFR, India is joined by Sade—a first-gen Ghanaian-American immigrant, angel investor, wife, girl mom,...

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