Being "too nice" with others is an issue

Send us Fan Mailno more mr nice guy ! people confuse being nice with being a people pleaser and always saying yes to others. we are told as kids to never say no because "that's not nice" so we grow up with never wanting and being able to say no, thats where the issues come in. you don't see it as an issue because you don't want to accept it and think its just being nice. that is most definitely not being nice. that's being in a negative state. fuck being nice tbh. it aint about being nice, that isn't going to get you anywhere in life, especially with being 'nice' to other people because you're only people pleasing and probably doing it for something in return. you have to become positive and learn to be nice with yourself first you will then learn what being nice truly is. you will then be nice out of heart not because someone is telling you to.Watch the episode on YouTube! https://youtu.be/qJux_Wh1dlo?si=bxDp7_Dc01DluLr2Support the podcast ! ❤️ https://www.buzzsprout.com/1981728/support  Subscribe to get the REAL DEAL from every episode ! https://www.buzzsprout.com/1981728/subscribeSubscribe to my Patreon where I post exclusive content to each Episode ! https://patreon.com/LisTalksVibesPodcast?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=join_link Follow the vibes on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listalksvibes/?hl=enTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listalksvibesAll my main social media accounts:-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/listapiaaaa/?hl=en-TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@listapiaaa?_t=8e4Y9ZpHVH9&_r=1-makeup bookings/portfolio Instagram page @lisglamz Subscribe to the Lis Talks Vibes CLIPS YouTube channel where I post short segments of the full podcast! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp-V4pnjcFfOzONkHgCR3sw Checkout my audio Podcast on Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3TSyq7RWoplDc27T7MQZHc?si=943b284a0eff4d00Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lis-talks-vibes-podcast/id1623209652 Checkout my Etsy shop for some cute crystal threaded bracelets!https://www.etsy.com/shop/lisvibesSupport the show