Betrayal Trauma Anger: Interview w/ Dr. Hollenbeck, Part 1

Anger after betrayal can feel intense, confusing, and at times overwhelming. Many women question whether their reactions are “too much” — but what if your anger is not only valid, but an essential part of your healing?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, author of Betrayal Trauma Anger: You’re Not Crazy… You’re Angry and You Should Be! to unpack the truth about anger through the lens of betrayal trauma.Together, we explore:• What anger really is and why it shows up so strongly after betrayal• The purpose anger serves in protecting us and signaling our pain• What makes betrayal-related anger different from “typical” anger• Why suppressing anger often keeps us stuck in trauma responses• Healthy, grounded ways to move through anger without abandoning yourself• How to begin processing anger in a way that supports nervous system safety and self-reconnectionThis conversation is both validating and liberating. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is something wrong with me for feeling this angry?” — this episode will help you breathe a little easier and see your anger with more clarity and compassion.Your anger makes sense. It deserves a voice, not shame.About the AuthorDr. Crystal Hollenbeck is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Anger Management Specialist, and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional. She helps individuals and couples heal from the devastating impact that broken trust and broken relational attachment brings including the complex trauma that results from intimate betrayal. She is a highly sought after conference speaker and has private practice in Florida where she also conducts 3-day intensives. Websitehttps://crystalhollenbeck.com/Article https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0092623X.2024.2306940Bookhttps://www.amazon.com/Betrayal-Trauma-Anger-Youre-Should/dp/B0FN6P62K8/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&dib_tag=se&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.wM614LoIEBMWDrdQhOZoFQ.GPKnCN_hCGwnYR2zsBu3BLWQn0Nwd4kGNkZRIzGROYo&qid=1755753925&sr=8-1SCIP Protocolchrome-extension://efaidnbmnnnibpcajpcglclefindmkaj/https://crystalhollenbeck.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/08/SCIP-Protocol-Dr.-Hollenbeck.pdfRachel's Bookshelfhttps://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/17C3H1PVHJ5N9?ref_=wl_shareSign up for my Newsletter⁠⁠https://l.bttr.to/iKgcY⁠