Betting On Yourself in Midlife - Angela Burk (EP 130)

What happens when a long-buried idea resurfaces decades later, and you finally decide to act on it? In this episode, Kathy talks with Angela Burk, author of The Real Girl’s Guide to Midlife, about the winding road that led her from a successful corporate marketing career to writing a deeply personal book about identity, reinvention, and reclaiming your voice. Angela shares how a forgotten red folder full of ideas from twenty years earlier resurfaced while she was cleaning out her desk after retirement. Inside were the same questions many women wrestle with in midlife: questions about ambition, identity, relationships, pleasure, and purpose. Instead of dismissing the idea again, Angela decided to bet on herself. Within one year of retiring, she wrote, self-published, and launched her book, all while confronting the old internal scripts that told her she wasn’t creative, shouldn’t speak too boldly, or needed to soften her voice. In this conversation, Angela reflects on the courage it takes to question those old narratives, the discipline of writing honestly, and how creative expression can become a powerful tool for healing and self-forgiveness. You’ll also hear how redefining success (even if only three people bought the book) gave her the freedom to create something deeply meaningful. This episode is a reminder that sometimes the most powerful midlife reinvention begins with one simple question: Why not me?  Key Takeaways 1. Midlife can be a time of reclaiming your voice. Angela realized she had spent decades softening her opinions and desires. Writing the book became a commitment to stop doing that. 2. The stories we tell ourselves can hold us back. For years Angela believed she wasn’t creative, until her son pointed out that writing is creativity. 3. Betting on yourself is a radical act. Angela’s goal wasn’t fame or sales. It was finishing something meaningful and proving to herself she could do it. 4. Creativity can be deeply healing. Through writing, Angela found herself revisiting earlier chapters of her life with compassion and grace. 5. Sometimes the best goals are the ones you set for yourself alone. Angela’s one-year deadline wasn’t about external pressure — it was about honoring a promise to herself.  Resources and Mentions:  Read Angela’s Book: Real Girl’s Guide to Midlife https://amzn.to/4roPkLb (paid link) Angela’s website: https://www.realgirlsguide.com Angela’s Substack: https://substack.com/@realgirlangela   Instagram @realgirlsguide55    About Angela Burk:  Angela Burk is an award-winning high-tech Marketing Leader, Author, and the voice behind Real Girls Guide to Midlife, a community reshaping how women step into midlife with radical self-possession. After three decades scaling companies from scrappy pre-IPO startups to global Fortune 500 giants, she left the C-suite to focus on consulting, writing, and telling the truth about what it really means to live on your own terms.  Her Substack and this book blend personal stories with hard-won insight and expert guidance, delivering real talk, sharp observations, and a voice women can relate to immediately.  Angela divides her time between the San Francisco Bay Area and Australia and is a mom to three boys and a stepmom to four more kids.