Beyond Manipulation & Bypassing | June 15, 2026 | Wisdom Dialogues @ Kehena Beach, HI

Send us Fan MailWhat if the biggest source of stress isn’t the weather, your partner, or the latest text that hit your nervous system like a freight train, but the meaning your mind assigns to it? From the shores of Hawaii, I walk through a grounded A Course in Miracles approach to forgiveness that does not ask you to deny your perception. It asks you to stop making perception into the cause of your suffering, so you can keep the practical wisdom and drop the inner war.We get into spiritual bypassing and the sneaky ways it shows up as “I should love this” while you override your body, your clarity, and your boundaries. I talk about manipulation in relationships, how blame hides the real pattern, and why “love requires sacrifice” is one of the most costly beliefs we carry. You’ll hear why explaining yourself can be a form of buying into accusation, how honest boundaries can be the most loving move, and how a pattern collapses when you stop participating in the game.Along the way, I share lived stories about crying and the ego, parenting without control through unschooling, and what compassion looks like when you can say no firmly without making anyone guilty. We end with a listener question about an adult child who stops talking and the surprising peace that can arise when you stop chasing a story. If this resonates, subscribe, share it with someone stuck in a painful loop, and leave a review so more people can find the path from projection to peace.Support the show🕊️ Go deeper with meBook a 1:1 Session🌸 Give and Support my Ministry:Donate📙 Read, Watch, or ListenSubstack