BHE 089 - ATTACHMENT TO DISCONNECT - Czander Tan

This week we’re joined by Czander to delve into his illuminating insight on the disconnect of attachment types.  — (8:56) Czander shares his comment on attachment and discusses his thought process on how he figured it out — (20:54) How attachment types make themselves feel not seen and supported so they can adapt — (37:15) Integrating the blindspot is the key to go from functioning (adapting) to being — (44:18) Attachment types seeing themselves as the problem and martyring themselves to persevere in difficult circumstances — (1:00:02) Attachment types projecting disconnect on others because they’re disconnected from themselves — (1:07:04) Attachment types having amnesia seeing re-occuring problems as new each time  — (1:18:02) Attachment types are attached to being disconnected from their emotions If you haven’t already, go buy John’s book on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about John’s book at (323) 696-0647 before Oct 11th for a chance to win a prize. Or you can also email [email protected] with a voice note.